Connecting With Our Fathers & Dealing with Trauma with Hakeem Anderson Lesolang

Send us Fan MailOn Part:2, We discuss the need for men to form a relationship with God. We unpack the need to forgive our fathers and mend our relationships to help us understand their role in our life. We discuss the unfair expectations we have for our parents and how the trauma of not dealing with the lack of connection with our fathers can cause.  We share some personal stories about the negative perception of coaching/therapy among men and Hakeem gives some insights on the importance of getting the right coach to help deal with the trauma in your life. We end off by highlighting Batho Batsho Therapy and how their programs and toolkits can help you heal your wounds and help you reach your true and untapped potential.   To help me unpack this topic, I'm joined by the Founder of Batho Batsho Therapy, Hakeem Anderson Lesolang. He is an experienced Quantum Mind Coach, Transformational Therapy Specialist, Cognitive Behavioural Analyst & Certified NLP Practitioner who believes, “Every cell in your body is eavesdropping on your internal dialogue & every part of personal mastery, is the ability to control & rapidly change your state & thoughts...”Please don't forget to subscribe to gain access to all our podcasts. If you enjoy the show please share it with friends and family. Thank you for your support.Topics we cover on the show:00:35 - Men spending time on God's word and learning His plan and purpose for men,02:00 - understanding your father's failures and forming a relationship with him,05:00 - internalizing the pain of not confronting our hurt and having unfair expectations for our parents,10:55 - the importance of therapy and if men fair better with male coaches,19:04 - figuring out what you want from a woman and views on polygamy,21:30 - learning from other polygamous men and what it takes to be in a polygamous relationship,30:00 - understanding our relationship with women and the importance of their role in our lives,32:05 - Batho Batsho therapy toolkits and how their sessions can be beneficial for you, 41:41 - closing statements,  Recommended links:Instagram: Hakeem Anderson LesolangLinktree:  https://t.co/C3j5aqosgl?amp=1Website: Batho Batsho TherapyFree connect session: Free Discovery CallFollow us & share your thoughts on the topic:Website: https://www.thenetworkingcompany.co.zaFacebook:  thenetworkingcoInstagram: @MannedUp_ConvosTwitter: @MannedUp_ConvosHope you are enjoying the conversation so far. Remember to take note of things that stand out to you while listening and take a moment to reflect in your own time or discuss this with some friends over some drinks, a meal or relaxing activity of your choice. Thank you for tuning into Manned Up Conversations. Please subscribe to help grow the platform, you can also find us on YouTube if you prefer video and don't forget to share your comments, insights or questions.Support the showSignup: Substack blog: https://substack.com/@mannedupconversationsFeedspot Listing:We've been selected by FeedSpot as one of the Top 70 Role Models Podcasts, Top 70 South Africa Men's Podcasts and Top 14 Men Psychology Podcasts on the web. Checkout the lists below;https://podcast.feedspot.com/role_models_podcasts/https://podcast.feedspot.com/south_africa_mens_podcasts/https://podcast.feedspot.com/men_psychology_podcasts/Donate To Our Campai...