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EPISODE · Sep 29, 2025 · 29 MIN

Connection Over Convenience: Why Cancelled Plans Are Ruining Our Relationships

from Put Yourself First · host Kat Horrocks

We’re living in a loneliness epidemic. Everywhere we look, we’re being told to protect our peace, normalise saying no and prioritise ourselves.But here’s the truth: somewhere along the way, boundaries started looking a lot more like walls.In this episode, I’m diving into:✨ Why choosing “convenience” over connection is quietly sabotaging our relationships✨ The feminine energy balance between receiving and showing up for others✨ How self-care has been warped into isolation (and what it actually means to put yourself first)✨ Tangible journaling prompts to help you reconnect with the people who matter mostIf you’re craving more intimacy, community, and connection in your life – whether with your partner, your friends, or even yourself – this conversation is for you.💌 Resources & Links Mentioned in This Episode:Join The Put Yourself First Sisterhood for coaching, community, and connection. Get your 14-day free trial → https://www.khorrocks.com/sisterhoodDM me on Instagram to share your reflections → @kat_horrocks

We’re living in a loneliness epidemic. Everywhere we look, we’re being told to protect our peace, normalise saying no and prioritise ourselves.But here’s the truth: somewhere along the way, boundaries started looking a lot more like walls.In this episode, I’m diving into:✨ Why choosing “convenience” over connection is quietly sabotaging our relationships✨ The feminine energy balance between receiving and showing up for others✨ How self-care has been warped into isolation (and what it actually means to put yourself first)✨ Tangible journaling prompts to help you reconnect with the people who matter mostIf you’re craving more intimacy, community, and connection in your life – whether with your partner, your friends, or even yourself – this conversation is for you.💌 Resources & Links Mentioned in This Episode:Join The Put Yourself First Sisterhood for coaching, community, and connection. Get your 14-day free trial → https://www.khorrocks.com/sisterhoodDM me on Instagram to share your reflections → @kat_horrocks

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