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EPISODE · Aug 2, 2026 · 19 MIN

control is just fear in a prettier outfit- how to stop forcing + start flowing

from the self-love archives · host Julia Salvia

click here to tell us how this landed for you ❤️ i used to think that if i planned hard enough- got every detail in line, controlled every single piece of it- i could make life go exactly the way i wanted.spoiler alert: that's not how it works. and trying got me burnt out and exhausted.welcome to august, bestie. this is our monthly theme episode, and this month we're releasing control. i'm your control freak type-a big sister who has learned not to be a control freak anymore, and i want you to leave this episode ready to stop forcing and start flowing- not just for august, but all the way through the rest of the year.📞 the self-love hotline is here- leave us anything you need advice on and we'll answer it on the show! 💕 the Love Yourself More card deck- 100 questions to know yourself better click heresame place, same time. Sundays, 12PM ESTconnect with julia on instagram @beautybyjulia + tik tok @juliasalviaunlock more archive content on instagram @theselflovearchive + tik tok @theselflovearchivessign up for the self-love archives newsletter: www.theselflovearchives.com

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click here to tell us how this landed for you ❤️ i used to think that if i planned hard enough- got every detail in line, controlled every single piece of it- i could make life go exactly the way i wanted. spoiler alert: that's not how it works. and trying got me burnt out and exhausted. welcome to august, bestie. this is our monthly theme episode, and this month we're releasing control. i'm your control freak type-a big sister who has learned not to be a control freak anymore, and i want yo...

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