Cult Survivor Recovery: Healing After the Daybell Case When the Abuser Never Changes

Lori Vallow still believes she's chosen.In a 2025 Dateline interview, she maintained her innocence. She claimed Jesus showed her she'd be exonerated. She showed no remorse.Meanwhile, her surviving son Colby is trying to figure out how to live in the aftermath of something that can never be fixed.This is Part 5 of "The Chosen Ones," Hidden Killers' final episode examining the psychology of spiritual abuse and religious trauma through the Vallow-Daybell case. Today we focus on the survivors — and on everyone who has ever walked out of a high control religion and had to rebuild from nothing.This episode is for you if you've ever asked: How did I believe this?The answer isn't stupidity. The answer is that you're human. Belief systems that promise meaning, identity, and belonging are designed to be compelling. They target seekers. They target the faithful. They catch good people.The shame you carry was put there by the system. You can put it down.Sometimes the person who hurt you never wakes up. Sometimes the apology never comes. You have to heal anyway.The apocalypse Chad Daybell predicted never came. But you're still here. And being here matters.Join Our SubStack For AD-FREE ADVANCE EPISODES & EXTRAS!: https://hiddenkillers.substack.com/Want to comment and watch this podcast as a video? Check out our YouTube Channel. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8-vxmbhTxxG10sO1izODJg?sub_confirmation=1Instagram https://www.instagram.com/hiddenkillerspod/Facebook https://www.facebook.com/hiddenkillerspod/Tik-Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@hiddenkillerspodX Twitter https://x.com/TrueCrimePodThis publication contains commentary and opinion based on publicly available information. All individuals are presumed innocent until proven guilty in a court of law. Nothing published here should be taken as a statement of fact, health or legal advice.#ReligiousTrauma #SpiritualAbuse #ChadDaybell #LoriVallow #ColbyRyan #HiddenKillers #CultSurvivor #Healing #Deconstruction #HighControlReligion