Cultivate #7: Luke & Katelyn: Who Should Pay on a First Date, The Robots Might Take Over, & Society's Meltdown

In this episode, Luke and I dive into the wild state of our society and how we’re trying to keep our own household sane while the world feels a little… unhinged. We talk about modern dating, shifting gender roles, the impact of feminism, and why everyone seems confused about who’s supposed to do what anymore. And yes, we go there: Who should pay on the first date? Turns out, it’s not “men always” or “women can.” It’s a little more nuanced...especially if you're not in a trad relationship sitch. We also unpack how technology is messing with our expectations, why emotional availability actually matters, and what it takes to build real connection in a culture that’s constantly distracting us. Whether you're single, married, or actively avoiding the dating apps, this episode will make you think, laugh, and maybe rethink a few of your own assumptions. Little tid bits: Modern dating is chaotic, thanks to tech and shifting norms Masculinity and femininity are having an identity crisis Online dating is both a blessing and a circus Emotional availability > perfect profile pictures Expectations can make or break your relationships Society shapes more of our love lives than we realize Choosing a partner intentionally is everything