CVAD Episode 113: Bad Date Horror Stories, Setting Boundaries & Would You Wait?

On this episode of Conversate After Dark, we get into the stuff people feel but don't always say out loud. We open with doing nice things for yourself, why it's so hard for the dependable one to set a boundary, and the difference between saying no and just backing away from people.Then it gets fun. We trade our worst date stories: the drunk date who got tossed from a Charlie Wilson show, the night a date pulled over to confront her other man, and the lunch-on-the-beach that turned out to be a married man holding checks hostage. Plus the question everybody has an answer to: would you wait if your person had to do a bid, and what does holding somebody down actually mean?We also get into crazy-chick red flags, why "good guys finish last" is a choosing problem, and the line between hood and street.📧 Guest/Topic submissions: [email protected]🌐 www.conversateafterdark.com🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/R-a1LP7Ecy4📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics?Email: [email protected]🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share00:00 Welcome back and where to find us01:00 Icebreaker: the last nice thing you did for yourself03:30 Being a man's man and learning to receive05:30 Caretaking and protecting your weekends08:30 Being the dependable one who gets used11:30 Learning to say no without backing away15:00 Courtesy dates and who pays17:30 The date that pulled over to confront her man21:00 The drunk date at Charlie Wilson26:00 Almost fighting at the Erykah Badu concert30:00 Good dates: the WNBA night32:00 Lunch on the beach with a married man36:30 Would you wait if he had to do a bid?40:00 Crazy-chick red flags and good guys finishing last43:30 Hood vs. street, and wrap up#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships