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conVersate After Dark
by conVersate After Dark
Welcome to ConVersate After Dark where we have open and thought provoking discussions that are sure to be provocative, stimulating and enlightening.
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CVAD Episode 115: Matchmaker vs. Dating Coach: Would You Let Your Parents Pick Your Spouse?
On this episode of Conversate After Dark, Tay and Marv get into it starting with the icebreaker: the sexual thing you tried once and never needed to do again.From there the conversation goes deep — arranged marriages and whether you'd trust your parents to pick your spouse, matchmakers vs. dating coaches, the "traditional man" trap on Married at First Sight, solo trips and ownership in marriage, Pinky Cole and Slutty Vegan's "friendly competition," MC Hammer's bankruptcy and what it actually means, family members who keep score, and a "would you or wouldn't you" celebrity crush round with Lorenz Tate, Idris Elba, Mary J. Blige, and Tocarra Jones.Mature audiences only. This episode contains explicit language and adult themes.📧 Guest/Topic submissions: [email protected]🌐 www.conversateafterdark.com🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/VdKky0qnl3c📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics?Email: [email protected]🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share00:00 – Intro / what's up with Tay 00:45 – Icebreaker: a sexual thing you tried but couldn't get into 01:00 – Analingus, the "eating groceries" trend, and the 69 scam 05:30 – Fleece Johnson and the "eating groceries" origin story 09:00 – Anal sex, prostate talk, and the prep problem 15:00 – Prep, gay relationships, and "I'm YOLO so I'll try it eventually" 17:00 – Arranged marriage: a coworker's story 23:00 – Would you trust your parents to pick your spouse? 27:00 – Hitch: dating coach vs. matchmaker 30:00 – Being too picky, past setups gone wrong 32:30 – Married at First Sight and matchmaking on paper 36:00 – The "traditional man" mixup and chauvinism debate 38:30 – Marriage dynamics: solo trips and not "owning" each other 42:00 – Pinky Cole, Slutty Vegan, and competing with your spouse 44:00 – Vegan food rant: the "chick-naan" nachos story 46:00 – MC Hammer's bankruptcy, explained 48:30 – Family members who keep score 50:00 – Would you or wouldn't you: Lorenz Tate, Idris Elba, Mary J. Blige, Tocarra Jones 51:00 – Outro / where to find the show#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships
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CVAD Episode 114: Work Wives, Celebrity Crushes, And Are You A Exhibitionist or Voyeur
Grown and unfiltered. On this episode of Conversate After Dark, Marv and Tay get into the honest stuff most people will not say out loud. They open with a wild icebreaker, then get into exhibitionist versus voyeur, how trust and comfort unlock real intimacy, and the difference between jealousy and intuition. From there it turns into astrology, overthinking, and why everybody has a tell, before the debate everyone has an opinion on: the work wife and work husband, and whether there is always a hierarchy in relationships.They close with the fun stuff, celebrities pulling fans on stage and where the line is, a hilarious Tank meet and greet story, celebrity crushes that get a pass, and the ultimate would you or wouldn't you: could you date someone who cannot stand your favorite artist.Mature audiences only. This episode contains explicit language and adult themes.📧 Guest/Topic submissions: [email protected]🌐 www.conversateafterdark.com🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/VdKky0qnl3c📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics?Email: [email protected]🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share00:00 Intro and where to find us01:00 Icebreaker: intimacy behind the wheel04:30 Why some risks are not worth it07:00 Exhibitionist or voyeur10:00 Where it started, first exposure and experiences12:30 The couple exchange and learning to trust16:00 Comfort, initiating, and opening up about fantasies19:00 Jealousy versus intuition22:00 Signs, astrology, and reading people25:00 Everybody has a tell27:00 The work wife and work husband debate30:00 Is there always a hierarchy31:30 Celebrities, the stage, and where the line is34:00 The Tank meet and greet story37:00 Celebrity crushes and who gets a pass39:00 Would you or wouldn't you, the favorite artist test41:00 Stevie Wonder and the great sight debate#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships
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CVAD Episode 113: Bad Date Horror Stories, Setting Boundaries & Would You Wait?
On this episode of Conversate After Dark, we get into the stuff people feel but don't always say out loud. We open with doing nice things for yourself, why it's so hard for the dependable one to set a boundary, and the difference between saying no and just backing away from people.Then it gets fun. We trade our worst date stories: the drunk date who got tossed from a Charlie Wilson show, the night a date pulled over to confront her other man, and the lunch-on-the-beach that turned out to be a married man holding checks hostage. Plus the question everybody has an answer to: would you wait if your person had to do a bid, and what does holding somebody down actually mean?We also get into crazy-chick red flags, why "good guys finish last" is a choosing problem, and the line between hood and street.📧 Guest/Topic submissions: [email protected]🌐 www.conversateafterdark.com🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/R-a1LP7Ecy4📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics?Email: [email protected]🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share00:00 Welcome back and where to find us01:00 Icebreaker: the last nice thing you did for yourself03:30 Being a man's man and learning to receive05:30 Caretaking and protecting your weekends08:30 Being the dependable one who gets used11:30 Learning to say no without backing away15:00 Courtesy dates and who pays17:30 The date that pulled over to confront her man21:00 The drunk date at Charlie Wilson26:00 Almost fighting at the Erykah Badu concert30:00 Good dates: the WNBA night32:00 Lunch on the beach with a married man36:30 Would you wait if he had to do a bid?40:00 Crazy-chick red flags and good guys finishing last43:30 Hood vs. street, and wrap up#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships
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CVAD Episode 112: Money, Marriage & Boundaries: What Nobody Tells You About Relationships
Are finances tearing couples apart before they even get started? Marvin and Tay get into the real conversations people avoid: loaning money to family, who should have a say in how your partner spends, and whether marriage actually benefits men or women. Plus, would you stay in a relationship just because your family loves your partner? And what happens when your ex is still treated like family? This episode hits every nerve. Subscribe and drop your thoughts in the comments.📧 Guest/Topic submissions: [email protected]🌐 www.conversateafterdark.com🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/DhXSGQA2Wvw📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics?Email: [email protected]🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share00:00 Icebreaker: What Would Your Mom Disown You For?06:45 Parenting Standards: Raising Sons and Daughters the Same Way14:20 Loaning Money: Where Do You Draw the Line?27:10 Should Married Couples Clear Every Financial Decision Together?38:00 Does Marriage Benefit Men or Women More?48:30 Would You Stay Because Your Family Loves Them?55:15 Exes as Family: When Does It Cross the Line?59:00 Lifestyle Misconceptions and Wrapping Up#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships
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CVAD Episode 111: Can You Really Rebuild Trust After It's Broken?
Once trust is broken, can you ever really get it back? Mar B and Tay go deep on rebuilding trust, lying in relationships, what it means to be equally yoked, dating someone without a strong male role model, and whether asking your partner to cut off opposite-sex friends is controlling or just smart. Plus a would you or wouldn't you that gets real very fast. This is Conversate After Dark — no filter, all the way Black.📧 Guest/Topic submissions: [email protected]🌐 www.conversateafterdark.com🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/iOsxefcnWbM📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics?Email: [email protected]🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share00:00 — Intro + show open01:00 — Icebreaker: Once trust is broken, can you get it back?05:30 — "I used to lie and cheat" — Mar B's confession and accountability09:00 — Small lies vs big lies: where does it start?13:30 — Equally yoked: background, class, and who your family approves of20:00 — Raised on love vs raised on survival26:00 — Would you date someone with no strong male role model?33:00 — Cutting off opposite-sex friends: controlling or valid?41:00 — Men see things women don't and vice versa46:00 — Would you or wouldn't you: skinny dipping + naturist lifestyle51:00 — Outro + where to find CVAD#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships
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CVAD Episode 110: Self Love Mental Health, and Relationship Boundaries
Masturbation, Mental Health, and Relationship Boundaries: The Conversation Nobody Wants to Have📧 Guest/Topic submissions: [email protected]🌐 www.conversateafterdark.com🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/T1c97Yg8cCA📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics?Email: [email protected]🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share00:00 Cold Open00:30 Show Intro and Where to Find Us01:45 Icebreaker: Bedroom Names and Alter Egos07:00 Facebook Jail, Alternate Pages, and May Awareness Months13:30 The History of Shame Around Self-Pleasure and the Gender Double Standard22:00 Toys, Preferences, Desensitization, and When Solo Pleasure Becomes a Relationship Problem31:30 The Amazon Package That Went to Grandma Twice and Our Most Embarrassing Caught Stories38:00 Mental Health Awareness Month: Can You Date Someone Who Refuses to Get Help45:00 Marv Opens Up About Depression and Suicidal Ideation51:30 Male Role Models, How They Shape Relationship Behavior, and Mentoring Young Men55:30 Final Thoughts and Show Close57:20 End#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #selflove
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CVAD Episode 109: Sex Tapes,Cheating Celebs Bedroom Communication: What Couples REALLY Won't Say
What would you do if your sex tape leaked online? Marv and Tay go there — and don't stop there. This episode covers Ray J's wild claims, Klay Thompson fumbling Megan Thee Stallion, Tory Lanez, and the real reason couples stay silent about what they want in the bedroom. Are you a pleaser or a controller? Can two pleasers actually work? Plus, would you date someone who refuses to meet your people after 6 months?CVAD brings the real conversations nobody else is having. Subscribe and tell a friend.📧 Guest/Topic submissions: [email protected]🌐 www.conversateafterdark.com🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/nLFHdsyjlV0📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics?Email: [email protected]🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share0:29 Intro & Where to Find Us1:45 Icebreaker: Your Sex Tape Just Leaked — Now What?13:30 Ray J Claims 12,500 Partners — Do We Believe Him?23:50 Klay Thompson Fumbled Megan Thee Stallion32:20 Tory Lanez, Accountability & Why People Still Hate Meg41:10 Do Couples Actually Talk About What They Want in Bed?50:30 What Happens When Two Pleasers Collide59:45 Would You Date Someone Who Won't Meet Your People After 6 Months?1:11:00 Introducing Partners to Family — Where's the Line?1:18:45 Final Thoughts & Outro#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #meganthestallion #klaythompson #rayj
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CVAD Episode 108: Is Porn Ruining Your Relationship?
In this episode of Conversate After Dark, we dive into real conversations about relationships, intimacy, and boundaries.We break down:• How important alone time is in relationships• Clingy vs independent partners• Does porn negatively impact intimacy?• Can good sex actually save a bad relationship?• Revenge sex, toxic habits, and relationship truthsThis episode gets honest, funny, and real about modern dating and connection.🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/ZtgjcPI3bqw📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics?Email: [email protected]🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share0:00 Intro + where to find the show0:38 Icebreaker: how important is alone time in a relationship3:30 Clingy vs independent partners4:03 Nonchalant partners and getting too used to being single12:12 “Nothing is worse than being touched when you don’t want to be touched”13:20 Does porn mess up intimacy in relationships?14:27 Porn and unrealistic expectations16:26 Can porn desensitize you sexually?21:18 What if your partner’s porn preference is the opposite of you?22:37 Race preferences and dating outside your race28:16 Black men and Black women discussion28:49 Can good sex save a struggling relationship?32:19 Can you have sex while still mad at your partner?36:23 Would you ever have revenge sex?43:30 Friends, loyalty, and crossing relationship lines50:17 Outro#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly
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CVAD Episode 107: Sometimes You Just Want To Sleep In The Car
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about the viral clip of the man sleeping his car to avoid his wife, and can you be with someone who does not think sex is important. Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.Tune in and tell us what you think.It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/RPqwmg_vLC8📌 Link in bio💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email [email protected]#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly
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CVAD Episode 106: Manifesting A Marriage
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about is it weird to manifest a marriage.Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.Tune in and tell us what you think.It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/JiRKZrimOoA📌 Link in bio💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email [email protected]#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly
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CVAD Episode 105: What Is Your Apology Language?
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about apology languages and when does liking social media pictures go too far?Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.Tune in and tell us what you think.It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/gdCKXnHHejU📌 Link in bio💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email [email protected]#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly
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CVAD Episode 104: Should You Still Be Going To The Club If You're In A Relationship?
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about should you be going to the club if you're in a relationship?Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.Tune in and tell us what you think.It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/st8qrDMrTm8📌 Link in bio💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email [email protected]#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly
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CVAD Episode 103: Are You Telling Your Friend That You Saw Their Partner Cheating?
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about should you tell your friend or not if you catch their partner cheating on them?Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.Tune in and tell us what you think.It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/hJxEEAGP94U📌 Link in bio💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email [email protected]#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly
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CVAD Episode 102: When Dating Feels Like Babysitting
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about marrying too young and dating someone who is immature. Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.Tune in and tell us what you think.It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube:https://youtu.be/7C3yiI5gQBo📌 Link in bio💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email [email protected]#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly
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CVAD Episode 101: When Should You Take The Relationship Public
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about the importance of matching energy, and when should you take the relationship public. Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.Tune in and tell us what you think.It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube:https://youtu.be/FJaBGjKqlqE📌 Link in bio💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email [email protected]#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly
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CVAD Episode 100: Our 100th Episode!
On this episode Tay and Marv celebrate 100 episodes of conVersate After DarkGrown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.Tune in and tell us what you think.It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube:https://youtu.be/b-jLgWOeXiw📌 Link in bio💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email [email protected]#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly
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CVAD Episode 99: Does Who Your Partner Used To Date Matter?
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about age differences and does who your partner used to date matter?Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.Tune in and tell us what you think.It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/p4vYDc7Eo_Q📌 Link in bio💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email [email protected]#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly
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CVAD Episode 98: How Your Trauma Can Impact Your Relationships
On this episode Tay and Marv talk have on their special guest Dr. VicTORIEus aka Dr. Torie Williams to talk about ACES also known as Adverse Childhood Experiences and how they can impact your relationships. Make sure you follow Dr. Torie on IG @dr.victorieusGrown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.Tune in and tell us what you think.It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/cUVLa1LO2ZY📌 Link in bio💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email [email protected]#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly #childhoodtrauma #adversechildhoodexperiences
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CVAD Episode 97: Can AI Help You Be Better At Dating?
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about using AI to help you date, and the new way of ghosting....This week on ConVersate After Dark, Tay and Marv ask the real questions.Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.Tune in and tell us what you think.It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/_krNQR7Rkwk📌 Link in bio💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email [email protected]#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly
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CVAD Episode 96: Can You Be Too Transparent When Entering A Relationship?
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about can you be too transparent when entering a relationship, and how would you handle hearing about an abusive ex passing away?This week on ConVersate After Dark, Tay and Marv ask the real questions.Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.Tune in and tell us what you think.It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/-Bj03brUIYQ📌 Link in bio💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email [email protected]#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly
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CVAD Episode 95: Can You Stay Friends With A Friend With Benefits Once The Benefits End?
On this episode Tay and Marv talk can you stay friends with a friend with benefits once the benefits end?This week on ConVersate After Dark, Tay and Marv ask the real questions.Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.Tune in and tell us what you think.It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/LITV2QCDx8o📌 Link in bio💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email [email protected]#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly
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CVAD Episode 94: Are You Staying If Your Partner Changes?
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about how do you handle your partner changing on you. This week on ConVersate After Dark, Tay and Marv ask the real questions.Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.Tune in and tell us what you think.It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/s45hal7Lc-I📌 Link in bio💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email [email protected]#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly
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CVAD Episode 93: How Do You Avoid Cheating?
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about how do you keep yourself from cheating.This week on ConVersate After Dark, Tay and Marv ask the real questions.Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.Tune in and tell us what you think.It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/XMDqDjIiMoA📌 Link in bio💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email [email protected]#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly
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CVAD Episode 92: Should You Give Relationship Advice If You're Not In One?
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about can you give good relationship advice if you are not in a relationship?This week on ConVersate After Dark, Tay and Marv ask the real questions.Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.Tune in and tell us what you think.It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/jCYwSIBHwg0📌 Link in bio💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email [email protected]#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly
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CVAD Episode 91: What's The Difference Between Compromise and Sacrifice?
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about how to tell if you're compromising for a relationship or sacrificing who you are.This week on ConVersate After Dark, Tay and Marv ask the real questions.Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.Tune in and tell us what you think.It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/dk_StXzuleo📌 Link in bio💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email [email protected]#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly
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CVAD Episode 90: Are Middle Aged People Still Just Hooking Up?
Are People Still Just Hooking Up in Their 40s and 50s?This week on ConVersate After Dark, Tay and Marv ask the real questions.Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.Tune in and tell us what you think.It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/bJg4A9v7OEg📌 Link in bio💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email [email protected]#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly #hookupcultre
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CVAD Episode 89: Do You Have To Be Healed To Be Available?
Should you be seriously dating if you're not healed? 🤔This week on ConVersate After Dark, Tay and Marv break down:Do you have to be healed to be in a relationship?Do men have to lead all the time in a relationship?It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/ghCZLoyR27M📌 Link in bio💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email [email protected]#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark #PostOrPrivate #RelationshipBoundaries #SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly
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CVAD Episode 88: Are You Posting Your Partner on Social Media or Nah?
Should you post your partner on social media… or keep it private? 🤔This week on ConVersate After Dark, Tay and Marv break down:📱 Why posting your relationship can help or hurt👀 When privacy becomes secrecy💭 How to set boundaries without dramaIt’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/mcwzWH7rXXI📌 Link in bio💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email [email protected]#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark #PostOrPrivate #RelationshipBoundaries #SocialMediaAndLove #KeepItOffTheGram #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #PrivacyMatters #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly
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CVAD Episode 87: Staying Toxic Relationship Free
Staying Toxic Relationship Free starts with one question: Would YOU date YOU? 🤔This week on CVAD, Tay and Marv dive into the red flags, green lights, and real talk that’ll have you checking your own emotional resume.✅ Relationship detox ✅ Real accountability ✅ Laughs, truth, and some necessary side-eyes💥 No fluff. No cap. Just real grown folks talk like only Conversate After Dark can bring.🎧 Streaming on all platforms 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/GEs4mg_h3l0 📌 Link in bio!Wanna join the convo? 📩 DM us or hit: [email protected]#cvadthepodcast#ConversateAfterDark#StayingToxicFree#WouldYouDateYou#BlackLoveUnfiltered#RelationshipDetox#EmotionalAccountability#RealTalkOnly#NoMoreSituationships#TheHealingPod#BlackVoicesInLove#SelfAwarenessIsSexy#ConsciousConvos
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CVAD Episode 86: What Is On Your Partner's Heaux Fax?
NEW EPISODE ALERT“Would You Read Your Partner’s HO Fax?” 👀Would You Date YOU? 🤔Let’s be honest — if you could see your partner’s full HOstory… would you look? And more importantly, would YOU even date you?This week on CVAD, Tay and Marv get into the kind of convo that makes you laugh, reflect, and maybe side-eye your own dating patterns.✅ Self-awareness✅ Real accountability✅ Raw relationship talk — no fluff, no cap.💥 Just grown folks talk like only Conversate After Dark can deliver.🎧 Now streaming on all platforms📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/gKqm5x_0Mpw📌 Link in bio!Wanna join the convo on the mic?📩 DM us or email [email protected]#cvadthepodcast #conversateafterdark #CVAD #WouldYouDateYou #HOFax #GrownAndReflecting #BlackVoicesMatter #BlackLovePodcast #NoFilterTalk #SelfWorkSeason #TheRealRelationshipPod #BlackMillennialVoices #ConsciousConversation
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CVAD Episode 85: Would You Date You? + Spinning the Block for Sex Only
📢 NEW EPISODE ALERTWould You Date YOU? 👀 + Spinning the Block for Sex Only 😬Let’s be real… would YOU date the version of you that shows up in relationships? This week, Tay and Marv dive into the real talk behind self-reflection, accountability, and whether it’s ever cool to spin the block just for sex. No fluff. No cap. Just grown folks conversation like only CVAD does it.💥 Tune in, laugh with us, argue with us, and reflect a little.🎧 Now streaming on all platforms.📺 Watch here: https://youtu.be/meLlpVcyiMw📌 Link also in our bio.Want to be a guest on the show?📩 DM us on IG or email us at [email protected]#cvadthepodcast #conversateafterdark #CVAD #WouldYouDateYou #SpinTheBlock #RelationshipTalk #GrownFolksBusiness #BlackPodcasts #Situationships #ModernDating #UnfilteredTalk #BlackLoveUnfiltered
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CVAD Episode 84: Are Our Standards Too High? & Should We Take Breaks in Relationships?
On this episode, Tay and Marv tackle the age-old question: Are our standards in relationships too high, or are we just demanding what we deserve? 👀💬 Plus, when things get rocky, is taking a break a smart move or just delaying the inevitable? 🧐⏳Let’s talk about it! Drop your thoughts in the comments.📺 Watch here: https://youtu.be/NXNxDB_Jevo📌 Link also in our bio.Want to be a guest on the show?📩 DM us on IG or email us at [email protected]#cvadthepodcast #conversateafterdark #RelationshipStandards #TakingABreak #LoveAndExpectations #BlackLove #RelationshipTalk #ModernDating #PodcastCulture
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CVAD Episode 83: Battle of the Sexes...Black Love, The Gender War & Public Cheating Callouts
On this episode, Tay and Marv dive into the ongoing gender war between Black men and women. Is social media making things worse, or are we finally having the conversations we need? 🤔💬Plus, if you catch your partner cheating, should you put them on blast publicly or keep it private? We’ve seen the messy callouts, the receipts, and the viral moments—but does it ever end well? 👀🔥Make sure you share the show.📺 Watch here: https://youtu.be/pKT0tnVZ23Y📌 Link also in our bio.Want to be a guest on the show?📩 DM us on IG or email us at [email protected]#cvadthepodcast #conversateafterdark #GenderWar #CheatingScandals #RelationshipTalk #NSFW #BlackLove #MessyBreakups #PodcastCulture
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CVAD Episode 82: Is It Ever Cool To Date Your Family's Friends?
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about dating your family members's friends, and is it every cool to do so? Plus what kind of sex ed should be taught at schools? Make sure you share the show. https://youtu.be/cEJ-lT-VAHs Link also in our bio Want to be a guest on the show? DM us on IG or Email us: [email protected] #cvadthepodcast #conversateafterdark #nsfw #sex #podcast #sexpodcast #safesex #wrapitup
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CVAD Episode 81: Are You Healthy Enough To Do The Grownup?
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about getting tested regularly, and making sure you are healthy enough to do the grown up. Make sure you share the show. https://youtu.be/DmfvQ4SCEiM Link also in our bio Want to be a guest on the show? DM us on IG or Email us: [email protected] #cvadthepodcast #conversateafterdark #nsfw #sex #podcast #sexpodcast #safesex #wrapitup #joytaylor #skipbayless #shannonsharpe
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CVAD Episode 80: Work Spouses...Play Things or Professional Problems?
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about the Fox Sports controversy, work wives and husbands, and what are our fight languages. Make sure you share the show. https://youtu.be/bPaj6wuZsGo Link also in our bio Want to be a guest on the show? DM us on IG or Email us: [email protected] #cvadthepodcast #conversateafterdark #nsfw #sex #podcast #sexpodcast #safesex #wrapitup #joytaylor #skipbayless #shannonsharpe
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CVAD Episode 79: Can Generational Curses Affect Relationships?
On this episode Tay and Marv talk breaking generational curses to make relationships better, and can you come back from a bad date? Make sure you share the show. https://youtu.be/WNEAwTNHFD0 Link also in our bio Want to be a guest on the show? DM us on IG or Email us: [email protected] #cvadthepodcast #conversateafterdark #nsfw #sex #podcast #sexpodcast #safesex #wrapitup
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CVAD Episode 78: Do Women Really Want the Soft Life?
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about should you keep nudes in your phone, what the soft life looks like, and being sex positive. Make sure you share the show. https://youtu.be/vr0UWDbLeA4 Link also in our bio Want to be a guest on the show? DM us on IG or Email us: [email protected] #cvadthepodcast #conversateafterdark #nsfw #sex #podcast #sexpodcast #safesex #wrapitup
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CVAD Episode 77: Are We Making Finding A Relationship Too Complicated?
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about wanting to be in a relationship, and are we too old to make lists for qualities potential mates must have. Make sure you share the show. https://youtu.be/wCBz4syWuH8 Link also in our bio Want to be a guest on the show? DM us on IG or Email us: [email protected] #cvadthepodcast #conversateafterdark #nsfw #sex #podcast #sexpodcast #safesex #wrapitup
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CVAD Episode 76: Are Red Flags Really Green Flags In Disguise?
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about their red flags when it comes to dating, and where they come from. Make sure you share the show. https://youtu.be/1gMmtihyDNE Link also in our bio Want to be a guest on the show? DM us on IG or Email us: [email protected] #cvadthepodcast #conversateafterdark #nsfw #sex #podcast #sexpodcast #safesex #wrapitup
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CVAD Episode 75: Are You Good With Watching?
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about the changes to long distance dating and what are their immediate turnoffs when getting to know someone. Make sure you share the show. https://youtu.be/94lXTErqxf0 Link also in our bio Want to be a guest on the show? DM us on IG or Email us: [email protected] #cvadthepodcast #conversateafterdark #nsfw #sex #podcast #sexpodcast #safesex #wrapitup
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CVAD Episode 74: Has Long Distance Dating Become Easier?
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about the changes to long distance dating and what are their immediate turnoffs when getting to know someone. Make sure you share the show. https://youtu.be/eB8aNz0JZ7w Link also in our bio Want to be a guest on the show? DM us on IG or Email us: [email protected] #cvadthepodcast #conversateafterdark #nsfw #sex #podcast #sexpodcast #safesex #wrapitup
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CVAD Episode 73: What's More Important? Compatibility or Chemistry?
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about does the time frame for getting married accelerate the older we get, and what's more important sexual compatibility or chemistry? Make sure you share the show. https://youtu.be/lo-ST_ovcl4 Link also in our bio Want to be a guest on the show? DM us on IG or Email us: [email protected] #cvadthepodcast #conversateafterdark #nsfw #sex #podcast #sexpodcast #safesex #wrapitup
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CVAD Episode 72: Should Bachelor Parties Be Coed?
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about should bachelor parties be coed like baby showers? LOL Make sure you share the show. https://youtu.be/r31WW9Vy6lw Link also in our bio Want to be a guest on the show? DM us on IG or Email us: [email protected] #cvadthepodcast #conversateafterdark #nsfw #sex #podcast #sexpodcast #safesex #wrapitup
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CVAD Episode 71: Are Exes Always Off Limits?
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about is it ever cool to get with a friends ex, and some other things... Make sure you share the show. https://youtu.be/HDAuF71BEAU Link also in our bio Want to be a guest on the show? DM us on IG or Email us: [email protected] #cvadthepodcast #conversateafterdark #nsfw #sex #podcast #sexpodcast #safesex #wrapitup
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CVAD Episode 70: That New Relationship Weight Tho...
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about avoiding the weight gain in new relationships and how to maintain your identity. Make sure you share the show. https://youtu.be/3owACkaqR7w Link also in our bio Want to be a guest on the show? DM us on IG or Email us: [email protected] #cvadthepodcast #conversateafterdark #nsfw #sex #podcast #sexpodcast #safesex #wrapitup
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CVAD Episode 69: At What Age Do People Stop Playing Relationship Games?
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about when do people stop playing relatoinship games? Make sure you share the show. https://youtu.be/knJ5kG1T620 Link also in our bio Want to be a guest on the show? DM us on IG or Email us: [email protected] #cvadthepodcast #conversateafterdark #nsfw #sex #podcast #sexpodcast #safesex #wrapitup
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CVAD Episode 68: Do People Still Make Love To Slow Jams?
On this episode Tay and Marv answer the question. Do people still make love to slow jams, and do you any of your exes look alike? Make sure you share the show. https://youtu.be/BKXMRQx4OtQ Link also in our bio Want to be a guest on the show? DM us on IG or Email us: [email protected] #cvadthepodcast #conversateafterdark #nsfw #sex #podcast #sexpodcast #safesex #wrapitup
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CVAD Episode 67: Are You Blocking Your Ex If Your Current Boo Asks?
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about would you block your ex if your current boo asks you to do so? And would you give your partner a hall pass during their bachelor/bachelorette party? Make sure you share the show. https://youtu.be/L7zZXGTvzJY Link also in our bio Want to be a guest on the show? DM us on IG or Email us: [email protected] #cvadthepodcast #conversateafterdark #nsfw #sex #podcast #sexpodcast #safesex #wrapitup
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CVAD Episode 66: Are You Staying Or Getting Payback If Cheated On?
On this episode Tay and Marv talk about if they are going to stay or get payback if their partner cheats on them. Make sure you share the show. https://youtu.be/J1OS3E3R2Nw Link also in our bio Want to be a guest on the show? DM us on IG or Email us: [email protected] #cvadthepodcast #conversateafterdark #nsfw #sex #podcast #sexpodcast #safesex #wrapitup
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