CVAD Episode 115: Matchmaker vs. Dating Coach: Would You Let Your Parents Pick Your Spouse?

On this episode of Conversate After Dark, Tay and Marv get into it starting with the icebreaker: the sexual thing you tried once and never needed to do again.From there the conversation goes deep — arranged marriages and whether you'd trust your parents to pick your spouse, matchmakers vs. dating coaches, the "traditional man" trap on Married at First Sight, solo trips and ownership in marriage, Pinky Cole and Slutty Vegan's "friendly competition," MC Hammer's bankruptcy and what it actually means, family members who keep score, and a "would you or wouldn't you" celebrity crush round with Lorenz Tate, Idris Elba, Mary J. Blige, and Tocarra Jones.Mature audiences only. This episode contains explicit language and adult themes.📧 Guest/Topic submissions: [email protected]🌐 www.conversateafterdark.com🎧 Streaming everywhere📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/VdKky0qnl3c📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics?Email: [email protected]🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share00:00 – Intro / what's up with Tay 00:45 – Icebreaker: a sexual thing you tried but couldn't get into 01:00 – Analingus, the "eating groceries" trend, and the 69 scam 05:30 – Fleece Johnson and the "eating groceries" origin story 09:00 – Anal sex, prostate talk, and the prep problem 15:00 – Prep, gay relationships, and "I'm YOLO so I'll try it eventually" 17:00 – Arranged marriage: a coworker's story 23:00 – Would you trust your parents to pick your spouse? 27:00 – Hitch: dating coach vs. matchmaker 30:00 – Being too picky, past setups gone wrong 32:30 – Married at First Sight and matchmaking on paper 36:00 – The "traditional man" mixup and chauvinism debate 38:30 – Marriage dynamics: solo trips and not "owning" each other 42:00 – Pinky Cole, Slutty Vegan, and competing with your spouse 44:00 – Vegan food rant: the "chick-naan" nachos story 46:00 – MC Hammer's bankruptcy, explained 48:30 – Family members who keep score 50:00 – Would you or wouldn't you: Lorenz Tate, Idris Elba, Mary J. Blige, Tocarra Jones 51:00 – Outro / where to find the show#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships