Dating 101: How To Chat Up A Romantic Partner

Dating 101: How To Chat Up A Romantic PartnerIf you're dating in 2026 and wondering how to start a conversation, avoid dating fatigue, and actually find someone you're compatible with, this episode is for you.Sarah Wright and Dr Victoria Stakelum are joined by Lydia Hoey, matchmaking director at Maclynn International and a science-based dating coach, to talk about how modern dating is changing - including the slightly alarming rise of AI companionship (72% of American teenagers have now interacted with an AI companion, and Meta is building chatbots to fill the ‘romantic gap’) - and what still matters most: real-world connection, values, and the ability to communicate clearly.In this episode, we discuss how to approach modern dating with more clarity and less stress: how to define your values (properly, not just picking words), how to choose first-date settings that reduce awkwardness and increase connection, and how to avoid turning a date into an interview. You'll get practical conversation openers to keep things light and engaging, guidance on dating mindset (switching out of "work mode"), and tools for navigating the messy bits - like mixed signals, texting "rules", attachment styles, and how to end things kindly without ghosting.GuestLydia Hoey - Matchmaking Director at Maclynn International, and a qualified science-based dating coach and matchmaker. https://maclynninternational.com/ContactBe part of the conversation. If you have a conversational conundrum or a question, please do get in touch via our email: [email protected] stylesPsychology Today – Relationship Attachment Style Test (UK): https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/tests/relationships/relationship-attachment-style-testAttachment Project – Attachment Style Quiz: https://www.attachmentproject.com/attachment-style-quiz/Love languages The 5 Love Languages® – Official Love Language Quiz: https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-languageCommunication styleVerywell Mind – Communication Style Quiz: https://www.verywellmind.com/take-the-communication-style-quiz-797314336 QuestionsThis site has them all: https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/36_questions_for_increasing_closenessFilms referencedHitch (2005) – IMDb: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0386588/Swingers (1996) – IMDb: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0117802/When Harry Met Sally... (1989) – IMDb: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0098635/