DAY 16 Uncaping, Unmasking, Unhiding | Annalise Keating - The Need to Control

Growing up in an unpredictable or unsafe environment forces you into a space where you feel the need to control everything and everyone.  Such was the case with Annalise Keating. In yesterday’s episode, Shirl and Natty discussed Annalise’s cape and mask as the master manipulator and master performer.  In today’s episode they chat it up about how her manipulative behavior gave birth to the need to control the outcome of not only life’s circumstances, but the need to control those around her as well. But in order for them to take a look at her need to control ALL THE THINGS, they also need to take a look at her lived experiences that forced her into that space.  Tap in to see what conclusions where drawn and  when you’re finished join them in Shades of Strong Facebook Community  to let them know if agree or disagree.  Our Facebook community is a safe space where you can connect with other Black women and have open and honest discussions about things that concern us individually and collectively. This is a safe space where we can lean on each other in times of trouble and unrest, and dance with each other in times of celebration.  If you find yourself in this or previous episodes, and are ready to start your journey to healing,  please consider joining us in the Sista Circle of Healing.  The next cohort starts November 9th.  Other Episodes in This 30 – Day Series Day 10 Uncaping, Unmasking, Unhidng |The Fight Trauma Response & Cookie Lyon Day  9 Uncaping, Unmasking, Unhiding |The Ride or Die That is Cookie Lyon Day 8 Uncaping, Unmasking, Unhiding, |Is Cookie Lyon an Angry Black Woman Day 7 Uncaping, Unmasking, Unhiding, |Kick People Pleasing to the Curb Day 6 Uncaping, Unmasking, Unhiding | Ten Whole Years of People Pleasing DAY 5 People Pleasing A Harmless Act of Love or a Mental Health Risk? Day 4 Uncaping Unmasking Unhiding | Why We Become People Pleasers Day 3 Uncaping, Unmasking, Unhiding |The Side Effects of the Black Superwoman Syndrome Day 2 Uncaping, Unmasking, Unhiding | When Love Becomes Kryptonite Day 1 — Uncaping, Unmasking, and Unhiding the Strong Black Superwoman Superwoman Must Die | Slaying the Strong Black Woman Syndrome Superwoman Quiz Are you a perfectionist, master performer, people pleaser, or people prover? Take this 4 minute quiz & get a breakdown of your superwoman archetype & how you can use this knowledge to start healing from the Strong Black Superwoman Syndrome.