Designing a Life You Actually Want with Megan Schnarr

In this episode of Better Your Business, Cher Goetz sits down with Megan Schnarr to unpack what it really means to step off the “expected” path and create a life that actually feels good. From navigating burnout and people-pleasing to trusting your intuition and redefining success, this episode is a must-listen for women in real estate who are ready for more.In this episode you will hear: [00:50] Megan shares her role as a life design coach and explains how she helps women create a version of success that feels aligned, grounded, and intentional.[02:19] A powerful look at how conditioning, expectations, and societal norms keep us stuck on paths we didn’t consciously choose.[04:21] Megan opens up about hitting rock bottom, leaving corporate life, and walking away from people-pleasing to build a life on her own terms.[06:50] Growth isn’t glamorous. This stage is lonely, uncertain, and uncomfortable, but necessary for transformation.[09:13] A powerful metaphor that explains why most people stay in safe, predictable lives and what it really takes to step into the unknown.[11:17] Exploring how we’ve lost connection with our intuition and rely too heavily on external validation.[13:13] Megan introduces the concept of expanding your “surface area of luck” by changing your environment, circle, and exposure to new ideas.[15:20] A practical and relatable breakdown of how intuition feels in the body and why learning to trust it changes everything.[19:00] A mindset shift for high achievers who struggle with overcommitment, delegation, and saying no.[20:41] From childhood strengths to adult careers, Megan explains how we often build identities around what we’re good at, not what we enjoy.[24:50] Even in entrepreneurship, many professionals unintentionally rebuild rigid systems that limit freedom.[27:25] Breaking down manifestation and the reticular activating system (RAS) in a way that actually makes sense.[33:40] A simple but powerful example of how your expectations shape your experiences, both positively and negatively.[41:55] The impact of “speed to lead” culture and constant availability on burnout and emotional regulation.[44:09] Megan shares practical home systems, from daily laundry to meal planning that create more calm and clarity.[48:05] How repeatable systems free up mental space and eliminate unnecessary stress.[50:42] Why clear roles and responsibilities are essential for reducing overwhelm and resentment.[56:11] Small, aligned actions can create meaningful change without risking everything.Connect with Megan:Instagram: @meganschnarrCheryl Goetz has been a Realtor since 2016 and knows firsthand what it feels like to build a business filled with anxiety, confusion, and constant pressure. After raising two kids, navigating a transition from new construction to resale, and adapting through shifting markets, she transformed her career into one that now feels intentional, joyful, and ease-filled. Today, Cheryl helps women in real estate do the same — creating businesses that reflect their authentic selves, attract aligned clients, and grow sustainably. Her mission is simple: to help women drop the industry “shoulds” and build businesses that fuel their lives.Instagram: @chergoetz_Website: www.athomecompany.caEmail Community: https://athomeco.myflodesk.com/bybpodcastContact: [email protected] you to our Sponsors:Staci Millard @ Thrive Accounting  @thriveaccounting | https://thriveaccounting.coEFV Legal @elenafavaroviana | efvlegal.caAmanda Walczyk | Saltbox Mortgages@saltboxmortgage_agentTuesday Mortgage Tidbits Sign Up for Realtors:  https://saltboxmortgage.myflodesk.com/iksoczdm1f