Disagreements over parenting styles, and future careers.

Ask Rachel anything In all honesty, very few of us thought about our partner's possible parenting style when we began dating them. I know that I didn't. It's mostly romance and blind hope at that stage. By the time the subject really comes into focus we're already in the thick of parenting. Louise has asked us to talk about this, and we loved the topic because so many of us lack the skills to successfully navigate a happy path with a partner who sees things differently. We talk about why consensus is so important in parenting, but also when disagreement can actually benefit your teenager. Finally, we give some top tips on how to go about finding a path to agreement that works for everyone. Also, as the world shifts in the direction of a knowledge economy - and increasing automation of jobs - our need for new skills has made a college education seem vital. But is that the right path for our teens? Gaelle asked to discuss how we talk to our teens about their future careers in a way that supports them. BOOKS MENTIONED: Thinking Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman WEBSITE LINKS: *https://www.positiveparentingsolutions.com/discipline/parents-disagree-on-discipline http://teentherapycentersv.org/2015/03/24/consistency-the-toughest-and-most-important-part-of-parenting-2/ https://childmind.org/article/conflicts-over-parenting-styles/ BOOKS MENTIONED: Thank You for Being Late: An Optimist's Guide to Thriving in the Age of Accelerations by Thomas Friedman WEBSITE LINKS: https://parents.au.reachout.com/common-concerns/everyday-issues/things-to-try-exam-stress/what-to-do-if-your-teen-is-stressed-about-the-future https://www.allthingscareers.co.uk/blog/how-to-talk-to-your-teen-about-careers-without-causing-tension https://www.talkspace.com/blog/teen-pressure-school-career/ https://magazine.lifology.com/career/career-anxieties-among-teenagers/ https://www.joyfulmindmentor.com/blog/stressed-teens-and-career-development https://www.inquirer.com/opinion/commentary/teenage-anxiety-stress-college-high-school-20190311.html?outputType=amp Support the show Please hit the follow button if you like the podcast, and share it with anyone who might benefit. You can review us on Apple podcasts by going to the show page, scrolling down to the bottom where you can click on a star then you can leave your message. Please don't hesitate to seek the advice of a specialist if you're not coping. There's no shame in reaching out for support. When you look after yourself your entire family benefits. Find all the tips from the episode on Substack: My email [email protected] My website has a blog, searchable episodes, and ways to contact me Instagram Facebook