Do NOT Ask Your Wife "What Can I Do?" (here's why)

Your wife is struggling, and everything in you wants to solve it. That instinct is the problem. Welcome to NEW DAD WEEK. Five short episodes for guys who are expecting or in the thick of the first year. We're starting with Jason Kreidman on the skill that matters most early on, and it isn't tactical. It's empathy, which he calls the single biggest game changer in how he parents and how he loves his wife. He also lands on four words that will save you an enormous amount of grief: do you want me to fix it, or feel it?   We built a free field guide for the whole week: the main points from every episode plus prompts you can actually use. Grab it at frontrowdads.com/newdad.   IN THIS EPISODE: Why the number one thing a new dad needs to hear isn't tactical, it's "you're not alone" Everyone feels like they're the only one who doesn't get it. Everyone. Empathy as the game changer, and what it actually looks like in practice "Do you want me to fix it, or feel it?" and why asking beats guessing Why "what can I do?" often doesn't help, and what to do instead The neighbour rule: don't ask what food they want, just bring food Meeting your wife's love language at a higher level than you think is reasonable Hear Jason's full conversation at frontrowdads.com/101.