EPISODE · Apr 20, 2026 · 9 MIN
Do you have a head elder?
from Gleaning Mustard Seeds with Jerrie Barber · host Jerrie Barber
Send me a Text Message or ask a question. — JerrieEvery eldership says it believes in shared leadership—until one man’s voice consistently ends the discussion.In this episode, Do You Have a Head Elder?, I name a dynamic most churches recognize but rarely confront: the leader of the leaders. Sometimes he’s kind and life-giving. Other times he’s controlling, wounded, or quietly corrosive—and the group helps him stay that way. If you’ve ever left a meeting knowing decisions were settled before discussion began, this episode may explain why—and what it would take to change it. Between PreachersWhen you find a "mustard seed," please share the address of this podcast with a friend: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2369804/episodes/17566838Website for Braden Parsons PhotographyBraden Parsons' email: [email protected] you'd like to discuss your roofing needs, call Jerrie Wayne Barber, II, at 931.628.3390 This podcast is brought to you in conjunction with the Ministry League Network.As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. There is no additional charge to you.Fleecy Clouds: One Woman's Story of Surviving and Thriving After Childhood AbuseSubscribe to my two blogs: New Shepherds Orientation Between Preachers...
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Send me a Text Message or ask a question. — Jerrie Every eldership says it believes in shared leadership—until one man’s voice consistently ends the discussion. In this episode, Do You Have a Head Elder?, I name a dynamic most churches recognize but rarely confront: the leader of the leaders. Sometimes he’s kind and life-giving. Other times he’s controlling, wounded, or quietly corrosive—and the group helps him stay that way. If you’ve ever left a meeting knowing decisions w...
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