Do You Have a Type… Or a Pattern?

Better After Divorce | Episode 36 Do You Have a Type… Or a Pattern? Most smart women know their type. The potential guy. The unavailable one. The emotionally complicated one. But what many don’t realize is this: Sometimes what we call our type is actually a pattern we haven’t recognized yet. In this episode, Coach Ivy breaks down how to tell the difference between attraction and familiarity, and shares three signs your type may actually be a repeating relationship dynamic. If you’ve ever found yourself wondering: "How did I end up here again?" This episode will help you start seeing what might be happening underneath the connection. In this episode: • The difference between chemistry and familiarity • The 3 signs you may be in a dating pattern • Why smart women often miss patterns • Two simple shifts that help you start choosing differently If you want to better understand your own relationship pattern, you can start by taking the Relationship Pattern Quiz here: You can also join Coach Ivy’s live weekly Office Hours (linked here) conversations or explore a Pattern Insight Session (linked here). IF THIS EPISODE RESONATED You’re not alone. Share it with another smart woman who is ready to understand her dating patterns and choose differently. About the Podcast Better After Divorce is where smart, self-aware women come to understand their relationship patterns, rebuild self-trust, and consciously choose what comes next. Because the better it gets… the better it gets. RESOURCES MENTIONED Take the Free Dating Pattern Quiz Book a Pattern Breakthrough Session Join Office Hours Live (Wednesdays @7PM EST) IG: ⁠⁠⁠@coachivyallen⁠⁠⁠ FB: ⁠⁠⁠CoachIvy Substack: Better Dating After Divorce COACH IVY RESOURCES → 🧩 Find your pattern — Get the free Dating Pattern Guide when you subscribe → 🧭 Go deeper — Schedule your Archetype Breakthrough Session → 🚦 Send your Red Light Green Light scenario to [email protected] — subject line: RLGL → ⭐ Loving the show? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify — I read every one, and yours might be featured on a future episode. CONNECT WITH COACH IVY Instagram: @coachivyvine Facebook: CoachIvy Substack: Better Dating After Divorce Coach Ivy · #SelfEvolutionRevolution · Notice. Name. Choose Differently.