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Better After Divorce
by Coach Ivy
Are you ready to go from the devastation of divorce to the reclamation of your entire life? Well, Queen, you’ve arrived at the perfect place! Welcome to Better After Divorce, the podcast dedicated to empowering women on their journey to reign with confidence, passion, and power in royal fashion.This is where we embrace the up-level, the evolution, your journey to becoming the best version of yourself. Whether you’re picking up the pieces or building an empire, this space is yours to rise, reign, and thrive. Time to claim your power and become the fierce unstoppable Queen you were born to be.
Episodes
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The Heartbreak You Keep Choosing
🎟️ Choose, Don't Chase: Stop Repeating the Heartbreak Live on Zoom · Wednesday, October 28 · 7 PM Eastern $27, and every seat comes with a free plus one. Bring the girlfriend who's dating the same guy with a different name. Save your seat → [event link] IN THIS EPISODE → Red Light Green Light…
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Every Man You Date Is Being Asked to Prove You're Not Broken
Every Man You Date Is Being Asked to Prove You're Not Broken For years I dated as proof I wasn’t broken. Every man was evidence for a case I didn’t know I was building. This week I’m telling the origin story behind all of this work — the pattern I ran in dating, and the same pattern I found…
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Body Betrayal or Body Evolution - The Pause No One Talks About
BODY BETRAYAL OR BODY EVOLUTION - THE PAUSE NO ONE TALKS ABOUT Better After Divorce with Coach Ivy · FemFactor Fit, Episode 1 Nobody asked me. I wasn't prepared. And frankly — it sucks. For a while I thought aging was something you could outrun. Then my body laid down in the road — like Dorothy…
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Worthy of Being Choosen
Worthy of Being Chosen When I got divorced, I thought I’d lost everything. The marriage. The family I’d built. The thing I was most proud of. That’s not what I lost. The finale of Dating From Fullness — and the part I left out of the written version on purpose. IN THIS EPISODE → The trap in the...
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Being Single On Purpose
Being Single On Purpose The world has exactly one story for a single woman in midlife: something is wrong with you. You're waiting. Still looking. Got issues. Bullshit at its finest. There's a difference between single-and-waiting and single-and-sovereign — same relationship status, completely...
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Intimacy Cost More Now - And You Have More to Lose
Intimacy Cost More Now - And You Have More to Lose You want the closeness, the connection. You even want the sex. So why does the thought of actually going out and getting it make you want to take a nap? It’s not that desire left. It’s that the price went up. This week we’re talking about what...
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You Were So Busy Being Chosen You Never Chose Him
You Were So Busy Being Chosen You Never Chose Him The date went well. You know it did — because you checked. Once when he leaned in, and again in the car, replaying the whole thing. And somewhere around the second exit it hits you: you can't name one true thing about him. Not what he said. You…
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You Can't Flirt In A Body You're Not Feelin'
You Can't Flirt in a Body You're Not Feelin' You know that half-second delay when you catch your reflection and think — that's not me. Or it is. It's just not the me I expected to see. And somehow you're supposed to go on a date feeling like that. This week we're talking about the body you're...
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Your Not On A Date. You're On A Job Interview
You're Not on a Date. You're on a Job Interview. It's crazy out here — and you're spending a fortune of energy for almost nothing. But not for the reason you think. This week we're talking about the wasteland. The matches that go nowhere. The Sunday swiping that leaves you lonelier than before.…
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You're Not Unlucky. You Keep Telling the Wrong Story.
You're Not Unlucky. You Keep Telling the Wrong Story. This week we’re talking about the shadow — the place every archetype goes when the pattern wins. And the woman who lives there. Meet Allegra. She’s done the therapy. She’s done the work. She knows her patterns. And she hasn’t had one serious...
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You Feel Everything for Everyone. When Do You Finally Get to Feel Something for Yourself?
You Feel Everything for Everyone. When Do You Finally Get to Feel Something for Yourself? This week we’re talking about the Empath — the woman who feels everything for everyone. And somewhere along the way forgot to feel anything for herself. She’s deeply attuned. Compassionate. The most...
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Creating a Test He Can't Win is What's Keeping You Single
Creating a Test He Can't Win is What's Keeping You Single This week we’re talking about the Valkyrie — the woman who tests every man she meets. And wonders why they all fail. She’s not difficult. She’s not impossible. She’s a woman who respects strength and wants to be met — not rescued. So she...
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Potential is Not Reality
This week we’re talking about the Seeker — the woman who can see the potential in every man she dates. And keeps forgetting to see herself. She’s not naive. She’s not desperate. She’s smart, self-aware, and genuinely believes that people are evolving. She asks the hard questions. She brings…
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You Keep the Peace. But Who Is Keeping You?
You Keep the Peace. But Who Is Keeping You? This week we're talking about the Matriarch — the woman who holds everything together. And wonders why no one is holding her. She's the one people call in a crisis. The emotional anchor in every room she walks into. The woman who reads the temperature,...
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You're Treating Him Like an Employee, Not a Partner
You're Treating Him Like an Employee, Not a Partner This week we're talking about the Lioness — the woman who handles everything. Including the relationship. You're a woman who handles things. Your career, your life, your relationships. And it works — professionally, logistically, functionally.…
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You're Not Dating Him. You're Dating Your Pattern.
You're Not Dating Him. You're Dating Your Pattern. Have you ever found yourself further along in a relationship in your head than you actually were in real life? In this episode, Coach Ivy shares a personal story about dating her imagination instead of reality, introduces the five relationship...
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Men Are Not the Problem — When a Green Light Does Not Feel Like Chemistry
Men Are Not the Problem — When a Green Light Does Not Feel Like Chemistry Sometimes the issue is not that there are no good men. It is that healthy men can feel easy to overlook when they do not activate the pattern you are used to. In this episode, Coach Ivy unpacks why some women miss green...
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Men Are Not the Enemy — The Real Problem Is What You Keep Tolerating
Men Are Not the Enemy — The Real Problem Is What You Keep Tolerating If you have been disappointed, hurt, or exhausted in dating, it can be easy to make men the problem. But that story only takes you so far. In this episode, Coach Ivy unpacks the deeper truth: the issue is not simply who you meet…
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The Small Things You Tolerate Become the Relationship.
The Small Things You Tolerate Become the Relationship What you excuse in the beginning rarely stays small. In this episode, Coach Ivy unpacks how women quietly tolerate subtle inconsistency, mixed signals, and low-grade confusion in the early stages of dating - especially when the chemistry feels...
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Why Smart Women Confuse Chemistry with Compatibility
Why Smart Women Confuse Chemistry With Compatibility Just because it pulls you in doesn’t mean it fits. In this episode, Coach Ivy unpacks the difference between attraction and alignment - and why so many smart, self-aware women still find themselves drawn to dynamics that are emotionally…
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Do You Have a Type… Or a Pattern?
Better After Divorce | Episode 36 Do You Have a Type… Or a Pattern? Most smart women know their type. The potential guy. The unavailable one. The emotionally complicated one. But what many don’t realize is this: Sometimes what we call our type is actually a pattern we haven’t recognized yet. In...
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Episode 35: Why Smart Women Repeat Dating Patterns
Many smart, self-aware women find themselves dating completely different men after divorce — only to realize the relationship dynamic feels strangely familiar. In this episode, Coach Ivy explains why this happens and how to recognize dating patterns earlier so you can make different choices.…
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Episode 34: Identity After an Ending
🎙️ Episode Summary / Show Notes If you’ve been feeling different lately — more discerning, less tolerant, unsure why things don’t fit the way they used to — this episode is for you. After an ending, many women assume something is wrong. But what’s actually happening is identity recalibration. In...
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Episode 33: The In-Between: Why You Don’t Need a New Year to Begin Again
🎙️ EPISODE SUMMARY This episode isn’t a recap or a resolution. It’s a pause. In The In-Between, Coach Ivy explores the quiet space between survival and momentum — and why you don’t need to rush into the new year to begin again. If you’ve been holding everything together and feel resistant to...
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Episode 32: Why You Feel Stuck After Divorce
🎙️Why You Feel Stuck After Divorce — And What Your Archetype Reveals About Your Next Chapter In this episode, Coach Ivy unpacks one of the most common — and least talked about — experiences after divorce: feeling stuck. You’ll learn why this happens even to the strongest women, what…
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Episode 31: The 5 Empowerment Archetypes_The Empath
In this episode, we explore The Empath Archetype — the woman who has spent a lifetime holding emotional worlds together. The intuitive healer, the emotional anchor, the feeler, the fixer, the heart-led nurturer who often forgets her own needs while caring for everyone else. Now, after divorce or...
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Episode 30: The 5 Empowerment Archetypes_The Valkyrie
🎙️ The Valkyrie Archetype: Courage, Boundaries & Building a Life Beyond Survival This is part of The 5 Empowerment Archetypes series, and today, we’re stepping into The Valkyrie — the warrior of reinvention. She’s the woman who has endured battles, rebuilt herself, and learned to stand tall even...
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Episode 29: The 5 Empowerment Archetypes_The Seeker
🎙️ The Seeker Archetype: Curiosity, Courage & The Art of Becoming In this episode of The 5 Empowerment Archetypes series, we explore The Seeker — the woman standing at the crossroads between who she was and who she’s becoming. She’s the one who’s done surviving, done performing, and finally…
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Episode 28: The 5 Empowerment Archetypes_The Matriarch
🎙️ The Matriarch Archetype: Wisdom, Nurturing & Becoming Your Own Safe Place In this episode of The 5 Empowerment Archetypes series, we explore The Matriarch — the woman whose strength, grace, and grounded wisdom have held families, careers, and communities together. But what happens when it’s…
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Episode 27: The 5 Empowerment Archetypes Part 2_The Lioness
🎙️ The Lioness Archetype: Strength, Power & Rising Differently This is part 2 of The 5 Empowerment Archetypes, we explore the Lioness — the embodiment of strength, power, and fierce devotion. After life’s upheavals, especially divorce, the Lioness teaches us how to rise — not by returning to who...
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Episode 26: The 5 Empowerment Archetypes_Part 1
Take the Quiz here: 👉🏼 Show Me My Archetype Screen shot this episode and share your archetype! IG: @coachivyallen FB: CoachIvy COACH IVY RESOURCES → 🧩 Find your pattern — Get the free Dating Pattern Guide when you subscribe → 🧭 Go deeper — Schedule your Archetype Breakthrough…
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Episode 25_Confidence Is Your Best Asset: Build It, Own It, Use It
Ready to redefine your career path? Discover how the Breakthrough Career Blueprint can guide your transformation. Click this link to check it out. Or book a Success Call to discuss if the program is right for you. :: Download my free workbook Unstoppable You: Reclaim Your Confidence, Career…
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Episode 24: Pivot with a Purpose
Let's stay connected! FB: CoachIvy IG: @coachivyallen You Tube: https://www.youtube.com/@coachivyallen9320 Take this free test to find out your top 5 strengths: High5 Strengths Test COACH IVY RESOURCES → 🧩 Find your pattern — Get the free Dating Pattern Guide when you subscribe → 🧭 Go deeper —...
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Trailer - Welcome to Better After Divorce
Connect with Coach Ivy! FB: CoachIvy IG: @coachivyallen You Tube: @coachivyallen9320 X: @coachivy COACH IVY RESOURCES → 🧩 Find your pattern — Get the free Dating Pattern Guide when you subscribe → 🧭 Go deeper — Schedule your Archetype Breakthrough Session → 🚦 Send your Red Light Green Light...
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Episode 23: You Get to Redefine Your Worth Beyond Divorce
Let's stay connected! FB: CoachIvy IG: @coachivyallen You Tube: @coachivyallen9320 X: @coachivy COACH IVY RESOURCES → 🧩 Find your pattern — Get the free Dating Pattern Guide when you subscribe → 🧭 Go deeper — Schedule your Archetype Breakthrough Session → 🚦 Send your Red Light Green Light...
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Episode 22: How to Reclaim Your Life
EPISODE RESOURCES 👑 Join Coach Ivy’s VIP Mailing List 👑 DM Me on IG: @coachivyallen 👑 Follow me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamcoachivy 👑 Follow and listen to Becoming the Crown for FREE on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3umjJ1s Join The Diva Tribe on FB - bit.ly/3gSqFAw Be Part Of My Email...
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Episode 21: Moving Beyond Fear of Divorce
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Episode 20: Building a Co-Parenting Relationship Beyond the Kids
EPISODE RESOURCES 👑 Join Coach Ivy’s VIP Mailing List 👑 DM Me on IG: @coachivyallen 👑 Follow me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamcoachivy 👑 Follow and listen to Becoming the Crown for FREE on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3umjJ1s Join The Diva Tribe on FB - bit.ly/3gSqFAw Be Part Of My Email...
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Episode 19: Fitness as a Gateway Drug
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Episode 18: Next Level Co-Parenting
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Episode 17: The DO'S of Stress Free Co-Parenting
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Episode 16: The DON'TS of Co-Parenting
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Episode 15: Investing Your Money
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Episode 14: How to Attract Money?
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Episode 13: Your Money Mindset
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Episode 12: The Feminine Factors
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Episode 11: Navigating the Holidays with Grace and Ease
Ready to be a VIP? Click here to join Coach Ivy for a VIP Day in 2025! Connect with Coach Ivy! FB: CoachIvy IG: @coachivyallen You Tube: @coachivyallen9320 X: @coachivy COACH IVY RESOURCES → 🧩 Find your pattern — Get the free Dating Pattern Guide when you subscribe → 🧭 Go deeper — Schedule your...
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Episode 10: Building Confidence Through Fitness
I’m super excited to have Valencia Johnson, on the podcast today where we talk reclaiming your confidence after divorce through fitness. We dive into the essence of what it means to be fit and healthy as you define it without going to extremes and how good health levels up your confidence!…
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Episode 9: Moving Beyond Life Traumas and Questioning their Faith During their Season of Divorce
This is going to be a great conversation today with Shaletha Marshall. Shaletha is a divorce coach dedicated to helping professional women heal from the pain and shame of divorce. We explore what it’s like to go through the process overcoming the feelings of isolation, rediscovering yourself, and...
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Episode 8: Moving Beyond the Pain and Loss of Cheating Spouses
Tara Eisenhard helps struggling singles transform conflict and confusion into clarity, confidence, and control. She’s a child of divorced parents, an ex-wife, a “next” wife, and the previous partner of a divorced dad. Personal experience taught her that divorce is about evolution, not…
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Are you ready to go from the devastation of divorce to the reclamation of your entire life? Well, Queen, you’ve arrived at the perfect place! Welcome to Better After Divorce, the podcast dedicated to empowering women on their journey to reign with confidence, passion, and power in royal fashion.This is where we embrace the up-level, the evolution, your journey to becoming the best version of yourself. Whether you’re picking up the pieces or building an empire, this space is yours to rise, reign, and thrive. Time to claim your power and become the fierce unstoppable Queen you were born to be.
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Coach Ivy
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