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EPISODE · Jul 17, 2025 · 6 MIN

Don’t Confuse a Big Name with a Big Threat

from Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind Podcast · host Corey Shapiro

A high-profile lawyer doesn’t always mean high-quality results. In this final episode of our Divorce Attorney Styles series, Corey Shapiro explains what a “Top Dog” attorney really brings to the table, why reputation can be misleading, and how to protect your case — and your budget — from intimidation theater. Whether you’re facing off with a name-brand firm or just feeling outgunned, this episode will help you stay strategic.What You'll Learn:Why some clients hire big-name attorneys they can't afford,  and what happens nextThe difference between legal skill and legal theaterWhen a Top Dog might actually be the right moveHow to spot whether you’re paying for reputation or resultsWhat to ask your own attorney if the other side brings in a heavy-hitterPower Line:Don’t confuse a big name with a big threat.Core Takeaway:You don’t win by matching swagger. You win by staying smart. Understand who you’re really dealing with, what matters in your case, and how to choose the legal strategy that works for your life, not your fear.Next Step:Ask your attorney:“Have you worked with this opposing counsel before?”“How do you plan to respond to their strategy?”“What are we doing to keep the case efficient and focused?”Closing Thought:You don’t need to be the loudest voice in the room. You just need to know what you’re building and how to protect it.You’ve got this.And if you don’t believe it yet, Corey believes it for you. For people whose divorce has turned into a fight. You've been trying to be reasonable with someone who treats every concession as the opening for the next demand. Whether you're starting to fold or ready to torch the whole thing, this show is a system for getting through it without losing your mind. In a one-sided divorce, your calm is the weapon, not the weakness.The show is a curriculum in three phases: Get Clear, Get Going, Get Your Life Back. Most episodes are solo; some are conversations with guests. Listen in order if you're early in the process. Every episode also stands on its own.Corey Shapiro is a NYC divorce attorney. 25+ years in family law. Child of divorce.The book and 1-on-1 coaching with Corey: https://gettingdivorced.orgNew episodes Thursdays during the season.Audio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

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