Don't Let Them

Welcome to December, Opinionaters! We’re closing out the year with a LOT on our minds — and even more to say. We asked for feedback, you delivered, and Sika… may have over-read the comments (again). John kicks things off with a full-blown rant about Mel Robbins and why he absolutely does not subscribe to the “Let Them” theory. No surprise there. We recap our Thanksgiving together — yes, we spent it side by side and lived to tell the tale. Sika updates everyone on her horseback-riding journey, which she is extremely over… but she’s also looking for a morally defensible reason to buy more Hermès, so the lessons continue. In pop-culture chaos: Jen Shah is getting out of prison, Porsha Williams is now a lesbian, and we have thoughts. Many thoughts. Then we get reflective: Why do men struggle to show up for each other? Why are white women so passive-aggressive? And why is John using ChatGPT as his everyday therapist We wrap the episode with a reminder you probably need: you are enough. Finally, we share the three big things each of us wants to accomplish in the last 30 days of 2025 — because if not now, when? This is 'Don't Let Them'