Don't Use this Word

Have you ever found a simple conversation with your spouse spiraling into conflict despite your best intentions? This video by Kelly DuPee, a pastor, police chaplain, and Christian marriage coach, delves into the power of 'I' statements over 'You' statements for healthier, more empathetic communication in relationships. Kelly offers six practical steps to effectively utilize 'I' statements, along with scriptural advice and a prayer for guidance. Watch now to discover how replacing blame with vulnerability can foster deeper connection, understanding, and love in your marriage.Want to improve the communication in your marriage? Here's the link to Kelly's free Couple's Communication Guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide00:00 Introduction: The Power of Words in Marriage00:34 Understanding the Impact of 'You' Statements01:15 Introducing 'I' Statements: A Transformative Tool02:08 Step 1: Start with the Feeling, Not the Fault03:00 Step 2: Describe the Specific Situation, Not a Pattern03:52 Step 3: Avoid Sneaking in Blame04:23 Step 4: Explain Why It Matters to You05:10 Step 5: Make a Positive Request06:31 Step 6: Pray It Before You Say It07:31 Conclusion: Building Connection Through CommunicationCheck out How to Ask for What you Want: https://youtu.be/2sUcdK5dPCgCall or text Kelly at 626-804-1731 for a free, no obligation Strategy call or use https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-clarity-call