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EPISODE · Aug 22, 2025 · 1H 2M

E. 104 Post-Show Weight Gain, Competing Pressure & PED Normalization With Kaylia Rhodes

from Self-Selecting · host Cory Hageman

What’s the real cost of competing? In this episode, I sit down with Kaylia Rhodes to dive into the truth about bikini competitions, PED use, post-show struggles, and the mental side of bodybuilding.We talk about:- Meeting athletes where they’re at with posing- Kaylia’s bikini competition journey & progression in muscle density- The mental toll of setting targets: scale weight, measurements & body image- Post-show weight gain, regaining productively & asking: “Do I look like an athlete?”- PED normalization, risky compounds & how they impact femininity and fertility- The business side of prep, pressure to compete, and the question every athlete faces: did you do everything you could, or did you cut corners?Timestamps:- [00:00 – 04:00] Meeting athletes where they are at with posing- [04:00 – 08:06] Kaylia’s bikini competition journey- [08:06 – 13:16] Progression in muscle density & physique changes- [13:16 – 15:51] Setting targets: scale weight, measurements & mindset- [15:51 – 20:34] Post-show struggles: weight gain & setting up success- [20:34 – 25:00] Productive weight regain & “Do I look like an athlete?”- [25:00 – 27:11] Competing outside prep & pressure to match PED use- [27:11 – 33:47] PED normalization & risky compounds- [33:47 – 40:00] Defining femininity & PEDs being blamed for fertility- [40:00 – 44:00] Fertility issues, prep, and dieting effects- [44:00 – 48:00] The impact of prep on business & life balance- [48:00 – 54:00] Pressure to get on stage to feel relevant- [54:00 – 01:01:00] Starting prep mentally ready- [01:01:00 – 01:02:03] Final thoughts: did you cut cornersLinks & Resources:Follow Kaylia on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kayliarhodes/Pose With Kaylia: https://www.performanceposing.com/posing-sessionshttps://coryfit.com/⁠Coaching: Let's Chat⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/15min⁠Consults: Book a Call⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/one-time-consultationFor more content, follow along:⁠Instagram⁠: https://www.instagram.com/cory_fit/⁠Patreon⁠: https://patreon.com/CoryFit?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink

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