E245: 10 Things to Say Or Not To Say When Someone You Love Is Hurting

🎙 Podcast Episode SummaryIn this heartfelt follow-up episode to last week’s powerful conversation with bestselling author and breast cancer survivor Cara Lockwood, we shift the focus to the people standing beside those who are hurting — the friends, family members, and loved ones who want to help but often don’t know what to say.This episode explores what to say — and what not to say — when someone you love is facing grief, devastating diagnoses, addiction, or emotional loss. With compassion and practical guidance, we share language that comforts instead of harms, presence instead of platitudes, and connection instead of silence.🎧 If you haven’t listened to last week’s episode with Cara Lockwood yet, be sure to go back and listen — it adds so much depth to today’s conversation.🚫 10 Things NOT to Say When Someone Is Hurting“Everything happens for a reason.”“At least…” (at least they lived a long life, at least it was caught early, etc.)“Be strong.”“Let me know if you need anything.”“I know exactly how you feel.”“They’re in a better place.”“Stay positive.”“This will make you stronger.”“Just pray about it” / “Look on the bright side.”“Call me if you need anything.”✅ 10 Things You Should Say Instead“I’m so sorry this is happening to you.”“That sounds incredibly painful.”“You don’t have to be strong with me.”“I’d love to help — can I bring dinner or run an errand for you?”“I can’t imagine how heavy this feels, but I care about you.”“I’m so sorry for your loss.”“However you feel today is okay.”“This is a lot to carry — and I’m here with you.”“I don’t have the right words, but I care.”“I’m checking in on you today. No pressure to reply.”Hey there, I’m so glad you’re here and tuning in! If this episode spoke to your heart, just know there’s even more support waiting for you.Book Your Free Clarity and Calm Call: No Judgement, just a chat https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/clarity-and-calm-callIf you are curious about where you stand energetically, or just need a frequency boost, book your FREE biofrequency voice scan here: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/complimentary-scan-demo if you want to take part in an amazing club, where you can get unlimited scans and free coaching every month, sign up here: $25 ($250 Value) Join For One Month Here https://workshops.tammyvincent.com/offers/JQz3QDrr/checkoutIf you would like to ask a question, and hear the answer in a future episode, please leave your question here: https://www.speakpipe.com/TammyvincentcoachingTrials To Triumph: An Adult Child's Emotional Freedom Blueprint: Use code THRIVE25 for 75% off today. https://workshops.tammyvincent.com/offers/DSbcgrZZ/checkoutAs an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,🔑 Start Your Healing JourneyFind ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here✈️ Bonus for Travel Lovers!Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.👉 Try the Trip Check: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/trip-check📺 Subscribe to My YouTube Channel👉 Adult Child of Dysfunction on YouTube🌟 Book Me to Speak at Your Event👉 Let’s connect: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/speakers-event-chat🫶 Let’s Connect📩 Email: [email protected]📱 Text: 513-280-3555🌟 If this episode helped you, please share it with a friend, leave a review, and hit follow. Every share helps break generational cycles and brings healing into more lives.