Emotional Constipation: How Holding On Is Making You Sick | ft. Iyanla Vanzant HTS #473

Sponsored By: → Santa Barbara Chocolate | CocoaDynamics available at https://SantaBarbaraChocolate.com. Use code DRG20 for 20% off. → Puori | Go to https://puori.com/DRG and use the code DRG at checkout to get 32% off your first Puori Creatine+ subscription order. Episode Description You keep ending up in the same relationship. The same patterns. The same pain. And no matter how much work you think you've done — it finds you again. Rev. Dr. Iyanla Vanzant is a six-time New York Times #1 bestselling author, spiritual teacher, and one of the most powerful voices in personal healing of our generation. Host of Iyanla: Fix My Life on OWN and called by Oprah the most powerful spiritual healer on the planet — but today, she's just Auntie. Her new book Spiritual Hygiene is a practical guide to clearing the emotional residue that has quietly been running your life, and this conversation is one of the most honest, most grounded Dr. G has had about what it actually takes to heal from the inside out. In this episode, you'll discover:  • Why you keep attracting the same relationships — and what the pattern is actually telling you about what's unresolved inside you  • What emotional constipation really is, how it builds up over a lifetime, and why it eventually ruptures in ways you don't expect  • Why self-awareness — not forgiveness, not mantras, not more events — is the first real step to spiritual hygiene If you've read the books, done the work, and still feel stuck — this is the episode that will show you why, and where to go next. Find Iyanla:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iyanlavanzant/ Book: Spiritual Hygiene: A Practical Path for Clean Living, Inner Authority, and Divine Freedom Timestamps: 0:00 - Why We Keep Attracting the Same Relationship Patterns 1:31 - Meet Rev. Dr. Iyanla Vanzant: Spiritual Teacher & Author of Spiritual Hygiene 2:42 - Hot Seat: Emotional Constipation, Grief vs. Mourning & Why Boundaries Feel Selfish 5:49 - What Is Spiritual Hygiene? The Daily Practice Most People Skip 7:28 - How Unprocessed Residue Shows Up in Your Life Without You Knowing 9:49 - The Trust Wound: How Childhood Betrayal Runs Your Relationships 14:18 - The Brain's Negativity Bias & Why We Seek Pleasure Instead of Joy 17:14 - Your Partner Isn't the Source of Your Love — They're the Mirror 25:50 - Inner Authority: How Cleaning Up Inside Shifts Everything Outside 27:58 - Emotional Constipation Explained & How It Sabotages Relationships 34:44 - The Emotional Illiteracy of Men & Why Breath Is the Way In 39:32 - When the Body Forces the Reckoning: Iyanla's Near-Death Story 44:32 - How Emotional Holding Becomes Physical Disease 47:49 - What's Inside Spiritual Hygiene: A Reading from the Book's Welcome 51:27 - What Makes Iyanla Feel Most Free & Where to Find the Book Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices