Envy Ruins Everything | Disciple Sanga | HG Vaisesika Dasa & HG Nirakula Dasi | 24 May 2026

Caitanya Mahāprabhu said, in a practical way, when the residents of Kulina-grāma asked him about offending devotees, he said, "Offending devotees is poison; the antidote to the poison is to glorify the devotees." So, if you have to do something with your tongue, then just try to find something good to say about them. Somebody says "blah, blah, blah," and you say, "Well, they have nice kids." I’ve heard that before, and it ruins the whole conversation. Because of envy in the heart, there is a hankering like "Can’t we just grind somebody else for a while and pile it on?" But then, when you throw that in, it’s an antivirus software and it wrecks the whole thing. The other overarching point is: we should pray to Kṛṣṇa to become completely 100% non-envious, because envy ruins everything in our lives and everybody else's lives. Just meditate on what it would feel like to become 100% non-envious. I asked Nirakula the other day—because I’ve been asking a lot of people—"What would it feel like to be 100% non-envious?" She said, "Well, we’d be living in the spiritual world. So why not start living there now?" It’s not even a religion, you know; you don’t have to join a church. In fact, the Bhāgavatam even says it. There’s a verse in the Bhāgavatam that I can’t find, so I have to ask Śāstra-sāra where it is. It says the main process is to become free from envy. I know it’s there in the beginning of the Bhāgavatam, but it’s very specifically stated elsewhere. You should meditate on that—how to become completely non-envious. And if you get the opportunity to associate with somebody who is non-envious, it’s startling. Because you just notice that they’re either non-envious or they’re so focused on becoming non-envious that they’re reticent about touching topics that will stimulate that sense of envy and nourish it like a little fire that you’re pouring ghee into. They have already understood—they’re so high-minded—they understand that Kṛṣṇa is aware of everything. We want to please Kṛṣṇa; like Mahārāja’s class this morning, the whole premise of that is to be utterly humble and very, very careful in the way we deal with people. Kṛṣṇa deals with everything else in our lives. We don’t have to jump in and try to use a monkey wrench to fix everything, because it won’t work. ------------------------------------------------------------ To connect with His Grace Vaiśeṣika Dāsa, please visit https://www.fanthespark.com/next-steps/ask-vaisesika-dasa/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=launch2025 https://vaisesikadasayatra.blogspot.com/ ------------------------------------------------------------ Add to your wisdom literature collection: https://iskconsv.com/book-store/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=launch2025 https://www.bbtacademic.com/books/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=launch2025 https://thefourquestionsbook.com/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=launch2025 ------------------------------------------------------------ Join us live on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FanTheSpark/ Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sound-bhakti/id1132423868 For the latest videos, subscribe https://www.youtube.com/@FanTheSpark For the latest in SoundCloud: https://soundcloud.com/fan-the-spark ------------------------------------------------------------