Ep.06｜共读《我本芬芳》和《秋园》：看见传奇的中国女性，我们本就芬芳

本期伴奏及音乐：片头片尾：Stand By Me - Ben E King - Seal - Soul 本期提到的书影：书籍《[合肥四姐妹](https://book.douban.com/subject/1433035/)》《[秋园](https://book.douban.com/subject/34998019/)》《[浮木](https://book.douban.com/subject/35479662/)》纪录片《[伴侣治疗/ Couples Therapy] (https://movie.douban.com/subject/34785115/)》综艺 [再见爱人第二季](https://movie.douban.com/subject/35656910/) 播客《八分》第429期 [王笛 x 梁文道：什么是“碌碌有为”的一生？](https://shop.vistopia.com.cn/article?article_id=634316&source=article) 报告《[联合国2019年全球避孕措施使用报告](https://www.un.org/development/desa/pd/sites/www.un.org.development.desa.pd/files/files/documents/2020/Jan/un_2019_contraceptiveusebymethod_databooklet.pdf)》时间轴： 1:13 感谢“付邮送”听友的暖心评论，快乐和能量随着交流在传递 2:29 【播客复盘】我们目前为止的感受和思考 12:21 我们开微博啦~欢迎点击节目详情直接关注【Hi 同桌】 12:58【为什么想读这本书】 14:52 杨本芬奶奶和她的杨本芬“女性三部曲” 20:42 杨奶奶60岁开始写作，80岁出书，是她的幸运，也是我们的幸运 27:58 历史是属于大家的，纪实类小说是“人民群众”历史的窗口 31:13 沉默的丈夫和追问的妻子在婚姻里真的幸福吗？ 37:25 男性在中国传统家庭里的“守护神”角色 49:17 在亲密关系中换位思考 56:45 亲密关系中的依恋风格：逃避型，安全型，焦虑型 1:00:33 面对冷暴力，我们认为该如何自处和选择？ 1:03:13 婚姻和离婚在中国是如何发展的？为何小说中悲惨的女性没有选择离婚？ 1:07:03 浅谈国内外节育和避孕措施的使用。节育和避孕是男女性的共同责任！ 1:15:42 健全的个人是健全的婚姻的基础，我们呼吁男女性掌握自己命运和婚姻的主体性！鼓励社会对婚姻之外选择的包容！ 1:18:10 燃烧你创作的小火苗！现在去行动永远都不会太晚！ 1:19:21 专注和珍惜和长辈相处的时间，主动关心和主动分享彼此 1:22:53 感恩现在，珍惜现在，下期再见~ 关于主播茶令：极简游牧主义，互联网搬砖，追星爱好者，擅长牺牲情商说实话。 Zoi：人生体验派，外企打工人，计划制定者。热爱声音，喜欢自然。

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