EP.103 - It's Good To Gup Shup With Madison and Kiran - "To Be That Person In The Room"

In this It’s Good to Gup Shup segment, we’re thrilled to welcome back Madison, host of the Bloodstained podcast. Many of you might remember her from Episode 91:" Almost Nothing In This Society Is Coincidental", where we explored systemic issues and the often-hidden narratives that shape our lives. Today, we’re reflecting deep, focusing on what it feels like to be 'that person in the room'—the one who speaks up about race and identity, even if it disrupts the comfort of others.As Madison puts it, “If you’re a marginalized person, you’re always that person in the room. The default is the majority.” Together, we unpack the careful balance between self-expression and self-preservation that many of us navigate daily. Often, it comes down to questioning, “Is it a slip-up or a set-up?” Madison highlights how, in these moments, we might be wary of an all-too-familiar reaction: “Why are you attacking me?”This episode isn’t just about naming the discomfort; it’s an invitation to reflect on our own biases, consider the hidden costs of being the person who speaks up, and explore ways to approach these situations thoughtfully. Madison reminds us, “At the end of the day, it’s about self-preservation.” Whether you’re the one raising difficult topics or the one listening, our conversation offers insights into fostering empathy and understanding.Join us for this reflective Gup Shup, where we explore the power of naming uncomfortable truths in pursuit of collective growthInstagram: _madiswan_LinkTreeSupport the showIf you like what you hear please click on "subscribe" or "follow" -  It's free and you will get notified when the newest episodes are posted!  Check us out on Instagram, X, and YouTube @mfupodcast. Give feedback, middle finger recommendations as well as random thoughts to [email protected]. Thank you for listening!In the spirit of reconciliation, we acknowledge that we live, work and play on the traditional territories of the Blackfoot Confederacy (Siksika, Kainai, Piikani), the Tsuut’ina, the Îyâxe Nakoda Nations, the Métis Nation (Region 3), and all people who make their homes in the Treaty 7 region of Southern Alberta.