Ep 106 | You Always Have a Choice. That's the Uncomfortable News

When you are stretched, you say it a hundred times a week without hearing it. I had to say yes. I had no choice. I have to do the pickup, the favour, the thing you dread. Most of the time it is not true. What you actually mean is the other option had a cost you did not want to pay. This episode is about why "no choice" feels so comfortable, why it quietly hands the power to everyone else in your life, and what happens in your body the moment you swap the words to "I am choosing to." No choice is comfortable. It is also a cage. The heaviest part of most weeks is not the things you have to do. It is the things you are choosing to do while telling yourself you have to. A choice you can see is a choice you can change.   00:00 Intro 00:20 "I had no choice" 01:05 The cost you did not want to pay 01:55 Why no choice feels safer 02:35 Being the reliable one, and what it protects 03:25 "I have to" as a shield 04:20 Swap it: "I am choosing to" 05:00 What you genuinely cannot choose 05:25 The door you never checked the handle on 05:55 Choosing is the step people skip 06:20 Ownership is not blame 06:45 The question to sit withSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.