Ep. 11 – When Grief Becomes Part of Your Marriage Story ft. Nancy Kingma, Gary Stowie, Kathy Stowie, Stephanie TeSlaa

Grief touches every part of life — our hearts, our relationships, and the way we show up to one another. In this episode, Gary and Kathy Stowie share the story of a profound loss and how it shaped them individually and as a family. We’re also joined by Nancy Kingma, a counselor who walks with individuals and families through grief and trauma, offering insight into how couples can remain connected with compassion, patience, and grace. This tender conversation invites us to slow down, honor the weight of loss, and remember that the Lord is near to the brokenhearted.Discussion Questions:What stood out to you from Gary and Kathy’s story or from Nancy’s insights?How has grief touched your life or the life of those close to you?When you are hurting, how do you feel most cared for?What might it look like to simply be with someone in their grief rather than trying to fix it?How can we become more comfortable creating space for grief—in our marriages, friendships, and church family?Who in your life might be carrying grief quietly?For those currently experiencing grief, what has been challenging and what has helped? Where have you sensed God meeting you?