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EPISODE · Jun 3, 2025 · 23 MIN

EP 12: The Law of Attraction & Releasing Control: The 4 Lies we Tell Ourselves in Dating

from We're Dating the Same Guy · host Madden Zappa

Tired of dating the same type of guys over and over? Your mindset might be the problem. In this episode, we dive deep into how the law of attraction shapes your dating life and explore the 4 toxic beliefs that keep you stuck in negative dating patterns.EPISODE TIMELINE:00:00 - Intro: Why We Keep Dating the Same Guy01:45 - The Law of Attraction SparkNotes: Like Attracts Like03:30 - The Infinity Loop: How to Manifest Without Obsessing06:00 - The Helicopter Parent Analogy: Why Control Kills Manifestation08:15 - The 99% vs 1% Rule: What You Actually Control in Dating10:30 - Belief #1: "There Are No Good Men Left"12:45 - Belief #2: Love Must Happen on a Certain Timeline15:00 - Belief #3: "I'm Better Off Single Than Getting Hurt"17:30 - Belief #4: "If I Take a Break, I'll Miss My Chance"20:00 - Your Energy is Everything: Dating from Excitement vs Frustration22:30 - Challenge: Rewriting Your Limiting BeliefsIN THIS EPISODE WE EXPLORE:How your energy directly attracts (or repels) your ideal partnerThe infinity loop technique for manifesting love without desperation4 subconscious beliefs that sabotage your dating successWhy surrendering control actually makes you more magneticHow to shift from dating with fear to dating with excitement"We spent so much of our time trying to control things that are truly out of our hands: the timeline, the who, the how. When really our only job is to be in alignment and embody the best version of ourselves. 99% of our lives are really up to God, universe, source, whatever it is you believe in. We are only in charge of 1%."- MaddenSTAY CONNECTED WITH MADDEN:Madden's Instagram: @maddenzappa✨If you loved this episode, don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! And remember, we do not gatekeep when it comes to dating smarter so be sure to share it with a friend!

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