Ep. 121: Kegan's Theory of Adult Development, feat. David Zeitler

This week, Steve is joined by psychotherapist and executive coach David Zeitler.  David explains his process for coaching as he learned under Robert Kegan.  We discuss Robert Kegan's framework for adult development, the self-authoring mindset, world-class performance, what makes someone coachable, what makes a good coach, resistance to help, the difference between coaches/mentors/advisors, and finding a coach.David Zeitler's website:Zeitler Executive Dynamixhttps://mindfulness.coach/David's book recommendation:In Over Our Heads, by Robert Keganhttps://www.amazon.com/Over-Our-Heads-Mental-Demands/dp/0674445880David's recommendation for finding coaches like him:Minds at Work: Change Leadership Coaching for Immunity to Changehttps://mindsatwork.com/Mental models discussed in this episode:Systematic Abandonmenthttps://bjjmentalmodels.com/systematic-abandonment/Feedback Loophttps://bjjmentalmodels.com/feedback-loop/Investing in Losshttps://bjjmentalmodels.com/investing-in-loss/Flowhttps://bjjmentalmodels.com/flow/Incremental Learninghttps://bjjmentalmodels.com/incremental-learning/Shuharihttps://bjjmentalmodels.com/shuhari/First Principleshttps://bjjmentalmodels.com/first-principles/The Golden Rulehttps://bjjmentalmodels.com/golden-rule/Respect People, Not Positionshttps://bjjmentalmodels.com/respect-people-not-positions/The 80/20 Rulehttps://bjjmentalmodels.com/80-20-rule/Don't forget to check out BJJ Mental Models Premium!If you love the podcast, you’ll definitely love our premium membership offerings. The podcast is truly just the tip of the iceberg – the next steps on your journey are joining our community, downloading our strategy courseware, and working with us to optimize your game.  We do all this through memberships that come in at a fraction of the cost of a single private.Our premium offerings are powered by Patreon.  Sign up here:https://patreon.com/bjjmentalmodels/Need more BJJ Mental Models?Get tips, tricks, and breakthrough insights from our mailing list:https://bjjmentalmodels.com/join/Get nitty-gritty details on our mental models from the full database:https://bjjmentalmodels.com/database/Let them know you're an educated grappler with our merch:https://bjjmentalmodels.com/store/Get the latest BJJ Mental Models updates from Facebook:https://facebook.com/bjjmentalmodels/Music by Enterprize:https://enterprize.bandcamp.com/