Ep.14 Abandonment Issues - A story I'm deeply ashamed of [self awareness]

Abandonment IssuesA story I'm deeply ashamed ofIt is important to become aware of your own behaviour. To reflect about my own abandonment issues several years ago was one of the most painful growth pains I went through. It was important to become aware of this highly dysfunctional/ destructive behaviour because it allowed me to move on, heal my relationships and build new nurturing relationships and most importantly to feel like myself again.It is pretty sobering to realize that:it was me who was in pain and added pain to other people's lifeit was not the outer circumstances or people who tried to hurt me but my distorted lense through which I used to see lifeit was me who had to go engage on a very humbling path to self-discovery and healingit was me who had to ask for forgiveness and not to torture people to forgive meit was me who had to have the courage to not hate myself and go farther/ deeper into victim mentality but to know that I deserve to be forgiven and to move onI am deeply grateful to the people who gave me a second chance.I am now encouraging people to give themselves a second chance and to heal (quicker than I did), as we only have this one life to enjoy, so better waste our time wisely and without regrets :DI am more happy now than ever before. I feel aware of my BS and each week that goes by I learn more about healing and growth. I'm not a hot mess anymore who is feeling threatened all the time but I'm a kind and chaotic human being who is trying her best every day, still failing and falling at times but genuinely interested in living a live at peace with myself and others.I am content and happy not because of my Partner, friends, family, my coaching business, Dogs, possessions I own or my health - (although this all plays a huge role in contributing to my happiness) BUT because I was made aware of what I need to work through to liberate myself from pain ! because I was provided with the tools and resources that would help me to finally healWhere do you feel the need to grow?Where/ with whom do you still feel like a victim?enjoy this episode with an open heart and mindIn this episode and many other episodes I touch on topics that I usually work on with my clients. Here in my podcast it will be targeted to a broad spectrum of people. If you'd like to go more into depth with a topic I address, reach out to me.with love and much respectAuroraIf you love what you learned, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss a future episode, and make sure to leave a review to help me reach more listeners just like you looking to follow their inner truth. Find the episode that suits your mood best here: https://the-borealis-experience.captivate.fm Support the advertise free show and Social Links Want to ‘Buy me a coffee’ and send some appreciation my way?Click link below:  https://www.buymeacoffee.com/auroraborealisThank you !!!!Give some love to the show and make it easier for people to find my podcast in leaving a review herehttps://ratethispodcast.com/auroraDo you need a one on one chat or regular meet ups with me to stay accountable on your journey ?Book a free 60 mins meeting with me Just message me...