EP 19: From the Guy Women Didn't Want to Date to Dating Coach: The Energetics and Strategy behind Smarter Dating

What happens when a man realizes he's the guy women don't want to date and completely transforms himself? In this raw conversation, dating and embodiment coach Tyler shares his journey from being disconnected and sabotaging intimacy to helping high-value women date differently.EPISODE TIMELINE:00:00 - Introduction: When men realize they're the problem04:15 - Tyler's transformation story: From feminine to masculine energy09:30 - Macro vs micro perspective in dating14:20 - The three pillars: Mindset, energetics, strategy19:45 - Common limiting beliefs that keep women stuck26:15 - Masculine vs feminine energy: What it really means32:40 - Strategic dating: Red flags and verification methods38:20 - The ultimate relationship question: Would I want my child to be like them?41:35 - Reflection on personal growth over 5 years44:15 - Final advice: Changing thoughts, feelings, and actionsIN THIS EPISODE WE EXPLORE:The macro vs micro approach to dating patternsHow to date from a regulated nervous systemThe difference between masculine and feminine energy in datingStrategic tools for identifying red flags earlyWhy "if it's meant to happen, it will" keeps you stuckThe three pillars: mindset, energetics, and strategy"The version of you that you are today has created the life that you live right now. And so if you realize that, you also realize that by becoming more of who you are, you can change the reality that you're living right now." - TylerCONNECT WITH TYLER:Tyler is a dating and embodiment coach specializing in helping high-value women over 30 create aligned relationships. After struggling with his own relationship patterns and being the kind of man women didn't want to date, Tyler transformed himself through masculine work, men's groups, and deep personal development. He now combines strategic dating methods with energetic and mindset work, helping clients break cycles and attract conscious partnerships. Tyler's Instagram: @tylerduddingSTAY CONNECTED WITH MADDENMadden's Instagram: @maddenzappa