Ep 2: Meltdowns, Shutdowns, and Scattered States

In this episode, Dr. David Palmer delves into the misunderstood behaviors of neurodivergent children—meltdowns, shutdowns, and scatter states. He emphasizes that these are not mere behavioral issues but are deeply rooted in the nervous system's response to perceived threats. Drawing from personal experiences and professional insights, Dr. Palmer offers a compassionate perspective on how to support children during these challenging moments. Key Takeaways: * Understanding the Behaviors: Recognize that meltdowns, shutdowns, and scatter states are manifestations of the body's fight, flight, freeze, or fawn responses. * The Role of Neuroception: Learn about the concept of neuroception, the nervous system's ability to detect safety or danger, and its impact on children's behaviors. * The Iceberg Analogy: Inspired by Dr. Mona Delahooke's Beyond Behaviors, understand that visible behaviors are just the tip of the iceberg, with underlying emotional and physiological states beneath the surface. * Practical Strategies: Gain actionable tools to co-regulate with children, helping them find safety and grounding during overwhelming situations. 📘 Recommended Reading: * Beyond Behaviors by Dr. Mona Delahooke 🛠️ Additional Resources: * Download the Free Guide: "Rewire the Response: 5 Myths Keeping You in Survival Mode… and How to Shift from Reaction to Connection." 📲 Connect with Dr. David Palmer: * Website: drdavidapalmer.com * Instagram: @drdavidapalmer 🎧 Tune in to understand and support the nervous system needs of neurodivergent children. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit rewiredcollective.substack.com/subscribe