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The Rewired Collective
by Dr. David A Palmer
The Rewired Collective brings parents, teachers, and school leaders together to build a unified approach to supporting emotional regulation in neurodivergent kids. Through trauma-informed insight and nervous system awareness, we help you shift from reactive cycles to resilient, connected relationships. rewiredcollective.substack.com
Episodes
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Ep. 23. It's Not Defiance. It's a Forecast.
It’s 7:40 in the morning. You’ve got twenty minutes to get out the door. One shoe is on. The other one just got thrown across the room, along with a flat, furious “I’m not going.” Maybe there’s yelling. Maybe there’s silence that feels worse than yelling. Either way, you’re standing in the…
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Ep. 22. Why Meltdowns Aren’t a Reflection of Your Parenting
In this episode, Dr. David breaks down the myth of the "calm parent" and reveals why calm is not a personality trait, but a daily practice. Learn about the 5 Ds—the core behaviors that kids use to communicate stress—and discover a science-backed, practical tool called the 90-second reset to help...
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Ep 21. From Cruise Director to Decoder: Rethinking Boredom in Neurodivergent Children
If you’re feeling exhausted by relentless summer boredom declarations and pressure to keep everyone happy, this episode is your reminder that you are not alone—and you haven’t failed. Dr. David will help you reframe boredom not as a parenting problem, but as a nervous system signal in...
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Ep. 20. Why We Freeze When They Melt Down
EPISODE 20: Why We Freeze When They Melt Down (And How to Rewire It) In this episode, we dive into the biology of parenting meltdowns, explaining why your first instinct is often to freeze, fix, or control. Learn how your child's dysregulation activates your own nervous system, and why your...
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Ep. 18. Understanding Child Behavior Through Brain Science
Rewire the Response: Understanding Child Behavior Through Brain Science In this episode, Dr. David dives into the neuroscience of children's behavior, explaining why traditional punishment-based approaches often fail, especially when kids are in survival mode. Learn how to better support children...
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Ep. 17. The Truth Behind Children's Lies
In this episode, Dr. David Palmer discusses the detrimental effects of the interrogation method on trust between parents and children. He emphasizes that when children are cornered, they often resort to lying as a survival mechanism. Dr. Palmer introduces the C-A-L-M approach to create a safe...
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Ep. 16. The Truth About Neurodivergent Children's Lies
Summary In this conversation, Dr. David discusses the complexities of children's lying behavior, particularly in neurodivergent children. He emphasizes that lying is not a moral failing but a safety response rooted in their nervous system's reaction to perceived threats. Dr. David advocates...
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Ep. 15. The Shift: Understanding Innovation and Fortitude
In this conversation, the speakers delve into the themes of parenting, mental toughness, and the significance of innovation and fortitude in personal growth. They discuss the significance of celebrating small wins, the process of repairing relationships, and the value of vulnerability in…
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Ep. 14. Transform Your Parenting with Anger Intelligence: Insights from Davina Hehn (part 1)
In this episode of The Rewired Parent, the host welcomes Davina Hehn, a trained therapist turned mental health coach, to discuss the concept of anger intelligence and how parents can break cycles of behavior ingrained from their upbringing. They explore the importance of understanding anger as a...
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Ep.13. The Audience Effect: Why You Can't Parent for Relatives
Summary In this conversation, Dr. David discusses the challenges parents face when navigating the pressures of parenting in front of an audience, particularly during the holiday season. He introduces the concept of the 'audience effect' and emphasizes the importance of prioritizing child safety…
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Ep.12. I Want It NOW!!!!
Summary In this episode, Dr. David explores the behavior of whining in children, particularly during the holiday season. He discusses the underlying emotional and neurological factors that contribute to this behavior, emphasizing the importance of understanding and compassion in parenting. Dr. A...
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Ep. 11. Mine, Mine, Mine: Scarcity Brain on Christmas Morning.
In this episode, Dr. David discusses the challenges faced by neurodivergent children during the holiday season, particularly focusing on behaviors associated with gift-giving and sharing. He introduces the concept of 'scarcity brain,' explaining how it affects children's responses to gifts and...
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Ep 10. The 5-Minute Protocol
In this conversation, Dr. David discusses the concept of flow in gaming, emphasizing the intense focus and immersion players experience. He explains how this state engages the brain fully, enhancing problem-solving and coordination. The discussion also touches on the negative effects of…
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Ep. 9. Dopamine 101 for Parents
Join Dr. David A. Palmer as he unravels the mysteries of dopamine and its impact on teen gaming habits. Discover practical strategies to balance screen time and foster real-life connections. Perfect for parents seeking harmony at home! Get the Free Screen Zombie Detox Download #DopamineDetox This...
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Ep 8. The Hidden Storm
In this eye-opening 20-minute solo episode, explore why your knee-jerk reaction to a child’s lie might be fueling the problem—not fixing it. Drawing from neuroscience and real-life stories (like the classic “candy juice on the face” fib), we reframe “defiant” lies as survival defenses triggered…
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Ep 7. The "Study Spells" Toolbox
Last week, we established the core reframe: the homework fight isn't a battle of wills, it's a battle of wiring. But understanding the "why" doesn't stop the meltdown brewing at 5 PM. For that, you need a toolbox. In this episode, we're filling that toolbox. This is a deep dive into five of my...
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Ep 6. Why "Because I Said So" is a Relationship-Killer
Welcome to the episode that will change how you talk to your kids forever. We all say it. "Because I said so." It’s our final answer when we're tired, frustrated, and out of options. We think we're setting a boundary, but we're actually drawing a battle line. In this revolutionary episode of The...
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Ep 5. The 5-Minute Brain Reset
Welcome back to The Rewired Parent. Last episode, we established the core reframe: it’s not a battle of wills, it’s a battle of wiring. But what happens when that wiring difference leads to a full-blown meltdown at the worst possible moment? Trying to reason with a child whose survival brain has...
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Ep 4. From Desperate to Rewired: My Journey to The Spark
Welcome to this episode of The Rewired Parent. I’ve spent 30 years as an educational leader and hold a doctorate in special education. On paper, I was the person who was supposed to have all the answers. But at home, with my own amazing, complex, neurodivergent kids, I was drowning. I tried the...
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Ep 3: Your Child Isn’t Disrespecting You—They’re Communicating
🚨 Stop Taking It Personally—Start Listening Differently. Ever feel like your child is mocking you, challenging your authority, or just trying to push your buttons?Before you snap—pause. In today’s game-changing episode, I flip the script on what “disrespect” really means—and why that eye roll,...
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Ep 2: Meltdowns, Shutdowns, and Scattered States
In this episode, Dr. David Palmer delves into the misunderstood behaviors of neurodivergent children—meltdowns, shutdowns, and scatter states. He emphasizes that these are not mere behavioral issues but are deeply rooted in the nervous system's response to perceived threats. Drawing from personal...
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Ep 1: This is Why I'm Here
In this inaugural episode of Rewire the Response, Dr. David Palmer shares his passionate mission to transform how we approach challenging behaviors in children. Moving beyond traditional behavior management, he reveals why current systems are failing both children and adults, shares the pivotal...
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The Rewired Collective brings parents, teachers, and school leaders together to build a unified approach to supporting emotional regulation in neurodivergent kids. Through trauma-informed insight and nervous system awareness, we help you shift from reactive cycles to resilient, connected relationships.
rewiredcollective.substack.com
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Dr. David A Palmer
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