Ep. 206: Preeclampsia, Magnesium Toxicity, & a NICU Journey feat. Rachel

In this episode of The Birth Trauma Mama Podcast, Kayleigh sits down with Rachel, a mom of two, to share her powerful and deeply layered story of navigating two very different pregnancies and births, both marked by moments of dismissal, fear, and intense advocacy.Rachel’s first pregnancy shifted dramatically at 30 weeks when she developed severe high blood pressure and preeclampsia, leading to weeks of confusion, mixed messages, and ultimately an induction at 34 weeks. Her experience left deep emotional imprints, including guilt, hypervigilance, and the grief of feeling disconnected from her own birth and early postpartum moments.Years later, Rachel and her wife decided to grow their family again,  a choice shaped by both longing and the fear of repeating past trauma. Her second pregnancy was medically smoother, but her birth once again challenged her sense of safety and autonomy through unheard concerns, rapid labor, and providers who dismissed her awareness of her own body.Together, Kayleigh and Rachel explore:💔 The trauma of being dismissed by providers during medical emergencies🩺 The danger of consent violations and rough, unexplained cervical exams👶 The emotional complexity of having a baby in the NICU,  and not “feeling it” right away🧠 Why even the fiercest self-advocates can’t always advocate in crisis🤍 Making decisions about growing your family after a traumatic birth🌱 What Rachel learned about agency, preparation, and choosing supportive partners in careRachel’s story is a window into how medical trauma can unfold quickly, quietly, and in ways that shape a person’s relationship with birth, their body, and their future. Her reflections offer validation, wisdom, and a reminder that no one should have to fight this hard to be heard.Resources & Links💜 Connect with Kayleigh: @thebirthtrauma_mama🌐 Learn more at: HoldingHopePerinatal.comFor more birth trauma content and a community full of love and support, head to my Instagram at @thebirthtrauma_mama.Learn more about the support and services I offer through The Birth Trauma Mama Therapy & Support Services.Disclaimer - The views and opinions expressed by guests on The Birth Trauma Mama Podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect the official stance, views, or positions of The Birth Trauma Mama Podcast. The content shared is for informational purposes only and should not be considered as professional or medical advice and/or endorsement.