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EPISODE · Aug 12, 2025 · 52 MIN

EP 22: Dating Sober: How Alcohol-Free Dating Is Transforming Modern Relationships

from We're Dating the Same Guy · host Madden Zappa

Would you go on a first date without alcohol? 39% of singles now say yes—and it's changing everything about modern dating. In this raw conversation, Alex Zauner (founder of Lucille's alcohol-free experiences and 11 years sober) reveals why removing liquid courage creates deeper connections and better relationships.EPISODE TIMELINE:00:00 - Opening: The first date question that changes everything05:12 - Alex's story: From college binge drinking to 11 years sober12:45 - The breaking point: Hospital wake-up call and commitment to change18:30 - Dating sober: Navigating apps, anxiety, and authenticity25:15 - Meeting her husband while sober and what that taught her32:00 - Mixed relationships: When your partner drinks and you don't39:20 - Why Gen Z is choosing alcohol-free lifestyles45:10 - Practical sober date ideas that create real connection50:00 - Final advice: Leading with authenticity in datingIN THIS EPISODE WE EXPLORE:Why alcohol-free dating creates deeper, more authentic connectionsPractical tools for managing first-date anxiety without drinkingCreative sober date ideas that build genuine chemistryHow to communicate your sober lifestyle in datingNavigating mixed relationships (sober + drinking partners)Why younger generations are choosing alcohol-free lifestylesBuilding confidence and social skills through sober dating"Sober dating is not just going to help you in that relationship—it's going to genuinely help you to build your social skills and confidence in every aspect of your life. You're going to remember all the details, the jokes, your personality is going to shine through, and their personality is going to shine through." - Alex ZaunerCONNECT WITH ALEX:Alex's Instagram: @alexandrazaunerLucille's BottleshopLucille's Instagram: @lucillesbottleshopCONNECT WITH MADDEN:Madden's Instagram: @maddenzappa

Would you go on a first date without alcohol? 39% of singles now say yes—and it's changing everything about modern dating. In this raw conversation, Alex Zauner (founder of Lucille's alcohol-free experiences and 11 years sober) reveals why removing liquid courage creates deeper connections and better relationships.EPISODE TIMELINE:00:00 - Opening: The first date question that changes everything05:12 - Alex's story: From college binge drinking to 11 years sober12:45 - The breaking point: Hospital wake-up call and commitment to change18:30 - Dating sober: Navigating apps, anxiety, and authenticity25:15 - Meeting her husband while sober and what that taught her32:00 - Mixed relationships: When your partner drinks and you don't39:20 - Why Gen Z is choosing alcohol-free lifestyles45:10 - Practical sober date ideas that create real connection50:00 - Final advice: Leading with authenticity in datingIN THIS EPISODE WE EXPLORE:Why alcohol-free dating creates deeper, more authentic connectionsPractical tools for managing first-date anxiety without drinkingCreative sober date ideas that build genuine chemistryHow to communicate your sober lifestyle in datingNavigating mixed relationships (sober + drinking partners)Why younger generations are choosing alcohol-free lifestylesBuilding confidence and social skills through sober dating"Sober dating is not just going to help you in that relationship—it's going to genuinely help you to build your social skills and confidence in every aspect of your life. You're going to remember all the details, the jokes, your personality is going to shine through, and their personality is going to shine through." - Alex ZaunerCONNECT WITH ALEX:Alex's Instagram: @alexandrazaunerLucille's BottleshopLucille's Instagram: @lucillesbottleshopCONNECT WITH MADDEN:Madden's Instagram: @maddenzappa

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