EP 225 Throwback Series: How to Stop Power Struggles and Build a Stronger Relationship With Your Child

What if your child’s tantrum, meltdown, or refusal to cooperate isn’t bad behavior at all, but a sign that something deeper is going on?In this episode of the Stroke It Podcast, Jenny Townsend is joined by Afsaneh Moradian, founder of MLC Homeschool Coaching, homeschooling coach, educator, and author of the Jamie Is Jamie picture book series. Afsaneh shares a different way to approach parenting, one built around communication, connection, respect, and understanding what children actually need.They discuss why attempts to control a child can lead to power struggles, and why behaviors parents sometimes label as laziness, manipulation, or defiance often have an underlying cause. Afsaneh explains how validating a child’s feelings, asking questions, setting healthy boundaries, and even using humor can completely change difficult moments.In this episode, you’ll learn:Why tantrums and meltdowns may be communicating an unmet needHow to respond when your child is in crisisWhy validating your child’s feelings doesn’t mean eliminating boundariesHow giving children choices can build confidence and independenceWhy trial and error is healthier than teaching children to fear failureHow apologizing to your child can strengthen your relationshipWays parents can reduce frustration, stress, and burnoutHow to find small opportunities for self-care in a busy scheduleWhy comparing your child’s development to other children can create unnecessary pressureHow parents with different parenting styles can communicate and work togetherWhy everyday conversations can create the trust children need to come to you with bigger problems laterAfsaneh also reminds parents that children develop at different rates and that who your child is at six, eight, or twelve years old does not determine who they’ll become as an adult. The goal isn’t perfect parenting. It’s creating an environment where children feel heard, respected, supported, and increasingly capable of solving problems for themselves.Connect with Afsaneh Moradian:Website: mlccoaching.comInstagram: @moradian.afshinehIf this episode made you think differently about your relationship with your child, share it with another parent who could use the encouragement.Order Stroke It now at jennyaldaytownsend.com/book. Your order includes a signed copy, shipping and handling, and great Bonus items!Follow the Stroke It Guide on socials to stay connected and to get tips on how you too can get your STROKE on'!Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jennyaldaytownsend/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thestrokeitguideCheck out more about Jenny Alday Townsend by visiting http://www.jennyaldaytownsend.comDid you know there are free downloads available on my website? Go to All Products | Jenny Alday Townsend and snag the 4 Ground Rules to Elevate your life. Planning your future? Develop your 1-3-5 and change your life path!