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EPISODE · Jun 9, 2026 · 50 MIN

Ep. 238: Surviving My Mother's Cult: Peggy on Escape, Trauma & Finding Your Voice

from Everything & Anything...and a bit gay Podcast · host Zach Randes-Friedman

Peggy is the author of Surviving the Family Kingdom: A Memoir of Growing Up in a Mom's Cult, Escaping and Reclaiming a Life, available now on Amazon. A psychotherapist of more than 20 years specializing in trauma, she sat down with Zach to talk through her extraordinary story — from the violent men and instability of her early childhood, to the gradual systematic indoctrination that began around age 11, to the "domino effect" that finally collapsed the kingdom when she walked away. We get into the four trauma responses (and why children most often "fawn"), the lasting toll of chronic cortisol stress on the body, deprogramming from beliefs about destiny and demons, radical acceptance, forgiveness, and what it meant for Peggy to raise her own children with a voice she was never allowed to have. If you've ever survived a controlling environment — a cult, an abusive relationship, a toxic family — this one is for you. 📖 Get the book: Surviving the Family Kingdom on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Surviving-Family-Kingdom-Escaping-Reclaiming-ebook/dp/B0GMKLM4FW  💬 Leave a comment and tell us what you think — and please leave Peggy a review on Amazon. Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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Peggy was raised inside a religious cult her own mother created and led — a movement called "the kingdom" built on end-times prophecy, fear, and total control. Pulled out of school in the eighth grade, taught that she'd be cast into a lake of fire if she wasn't "pure and perfect," and living under a mother who claimed to be the incarnation of Jesus, heal the sick, raise the dead, and read minds, Peggy spent a decade of her childhood in survival mode. In this unforgettable conversation, she shares how she got out at 21, the years it took to untangle the beliefs conditioned into her, and how she transformed her trauma into a 20-year career as a psychotherapist and a powerful new memoir. As Peggy puts it: your trauma doesn't define you — it can refine you. 📖 Get the book: Surviving the Family Kingdom on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Surviving-Family-Kingdom-Escaping-Reclaiming-ebook/dp/B0GMKLM4FW

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