EP 24: Finding God in Love: Transform Your Relationships Through Spiritual Security

Tired of feeling anxious and insecure in your relationships? In today's episode, relationship coach and spiritual guide Kevin Crenshaw reveals why your dating patterns might be rooted in a deeper spiritual search - and how cultivating a relationship with God can transform the way you love.Kevin shares his raw journey from being a chronic people pleaser whose first three relationships ended in betrayal, to finding spiritual security that completely shifted his approach to love. We explore how anxious attachment often masks a search for the divine, why your "ideal partner" list might actually be describing God, and practical ways to build genuine spiritual connection.EPISODE TIMELINE:00:00 - Introduction to Kevin Crenshaw and spiritual dating03:45 - Kevin's journey from people pleaser to spiritual security08:30 - The near-death experience that changed everything12:15 - Finding God after hitting rock bottom18:20 - How anxious attachment shows up in relationships24:10 - The difference between seeking completion vs communion in love29:45 - Why your "dream man list" might actually be describing God35:20 - Building a relationship with God: Prayer as conversation42:10 - Overcoming religious hurt and finding authentic faith47:30 - Three ways to start dating differently52:00 - Final thoughts on purpose and spiritual relationshipsIN THIS EPISODE WE EXPLORE:How anxious attachment shows up as searching for God in relationshipsThe difference between horizontal change and vertical spiritual evolutionWhy surrender, not willpower, creates lasting transformationBuilding a real relationship with God through prayer and communityHealing from religious hurt while staying open to spiritualityThree practical shifts to start dating from a place of spiritual security"People hurt you, not God. Build your own relationship. Look for people producing spiritual fruit - love, joy, peace, patience, kindness. Not just moments of it, but supernatural, consistent fruit that surprises you." - Kevin CrenshawCONNECT WITH KEVIN:Kevin Crenshaw is a relationship coach, spiritual guide, and author who has spent over a decade helping people transform their love lives through healing anxious attachment and building spiritual security. After his own journey from people-pleasing codependency to authentic spiritual connection, Kevin now guides thousands in understanding how their relationship with God directly impacts their human relationships. His upcoming book "Perspectives" (releasing September 2025) is a collection of poetic reflections mapping his decade-long journey toward freedom, healing, and divine connection.Kevin's Instagram: @the.heart.guyJoin the Waitlist for Kevin's new book PerspectivesSTAY CONNECTED WITH MADDEN:Madden's Instagram: @maddenzappa