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EPISODE · Nov 20, 2025 · 23 MIN

Ep#255 - Good Men Are Making This Dating Mistake — And It’s Costing You Everything

from The Self-Confidence Project · host The Self-Confidence Project with Kimberly Hill

In this episode, Kimberly discusses the detrimental mindset of prioritizing connection over compatibility in dating, especially for men who have been married before. She explains why many good-hearted men fall into this pattern and how it affects their confidence and relationships. Kimberly outlines the signs of chasing connection at all costs, the emotional consequences, and the benefits of engaging in relationships based on mutual growth. By setting clear boundaries and choosing partners who can reciprocate, men can build healthier and more fulfilling relationships. Tune in for valuable insights on creating intentional dating lives and deeply loving connections.P.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Watch it here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ready for tailored support? ⁠⁠Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and let’s map out your next steps.If you’ve ever wished you could just relax and enjoy conversations with women, this is your invitation ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Need honest feedback on your dating profile so you can start attracting quality matches? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Look here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection. See you next week,<3 Kimberly

In this episode, Kimberly discusses the detrimental mindset of prioritizing connection over compatibility in dating, especially for men who have been married before. She explains why many good-hearted men fall into this pattern and how it affects their confidence and relationships. Kimberly outlines the signs of chasing connection at all costs, the emotional consequences, and the benefits of engaging in relationships based on mutual growth. By setting clear boundaries and choosing partners who can reciprocate, men can build healthier and more fulfilling relationships. Tune in for valuable insights on creating intentional dating lives and deeply loving connections.P.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Watch it here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ready for tailored support? ⁠⁠Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and let’s map out your next steps.If you’ve ever wished you could just relax and enjoy conversations with women, this is your invitation ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Need honest feedback on your dating profile so you can start attracting quality matches? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Look here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection. See you next week,<3 Kimberly

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