Ep. 27 - Unpacking Identity with Dr. David Drake

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Kathy welcomes Dr. David Drake, founder of the Moment Institute and a pioneer in narrative coaching, to delve into the fluid nature of identity. David shares his compelling journey, from joining MENSA to surviving a near-fatal car accident, which led him to reassess what truly defines identity.David and Kathy explore the concept of identity as something ever-changing rather than static. David introduces the views of Robert Bly on the 'shadow'—the parts of ourselves suppressed from a young age—and stresses the importance of reclaiming these aspects in the second half of life. He underscores the need for a more open, learner-focused mindset, both personally and within organizations.Their discussion traverses the challenges of personal transformation, co-creating mindful environments, and navigating professional identity's impact on learning and adaptation. David explains his innovative approaches, including narrative release practices and a map exercise designed to help individuals uncover the impact of significant life events on their identity.In this episode, Kathy and Dr. Drake discuss:Understanding and Evolving IdentityThe Impact of External Experiences on IdentityCreating Learning CommunitiesMethods for Growth and LearningReflecting on Diverse Perspectives and Cultural NarrativesTimestamps:[00:00] Transitioning to a learning community with new projects.[09:07] Grieving and illness shape identity but not consumed.[14:06] Reflecting on past choices to make better decisions.[20:40] Letting go of self-limiting beliefs and experiences.[24:35] Unconscious societal pressure hinders self-acceptance and growth.[31:54] Reflect on leaving, arriving, and self-awareness.[33:15] Discovering disruptive past and facing unresolved issues.[39:20] Rites and rituals shape community and transformation.[45:46] Encouraging self-reflection, witnessing, and practicing communication.[54:04] Desire to go back to core for change.[01:00:23] Organize content to avoid old mindset thinking.If David was crushed up and put into pill form, what effect would he want to have on someone?Being kinder to yourselfMore About Dr. David DrakeVisit The Moment Institute’s website Connect with Dr. Drake on LinkedinCheck out Ovida’s Products Dr. David Drake is Founder/CEO of The Moment Institute. He has been a pioneer in the coaching space for 25 years, including as the founder of Narrative Coaching. He is a key Advisor for Ovida, an AI-informed start-up that accelerates the development of coaches. He is also the founder of Integrative Development, a philosophy of life and a revolutionary theory of learning & development. He has used this work with clients in 70 organizations, including ARM, Dropbox, Google, Logitech, Nike, PwC, and government agencies on three continents.David is a Thought Leader for Institute of Coaching. He is the author of soon to be published Report on The Five Maturities as a new paradigm for developing coaches. He has written 75 publications, and he is co-editor of SAGE Handbook of Coaching and author of Narrative Coaching: The Definitive Guide to Bringing New Stories to Life. Subscribe to Sense of Peace (Kathy's Substack) today! RECEIVE the attention you need to reconnect with your purpose. Click here to learn more about individual coaching with Kathy!If this resonated, the most generous thing you can do is share it with one woman who needs to hear it. One share grows this community more than any algorithm.Follow the show on your favorite platform, and come find me on Substack at senseofpeace.substack.com — that’s where the deeper conversation lives.And if you’re ready to stop just listening and start doing this work — visit kathywashburn.net. I’d love to talk with you. Until next time — keep investing in yourself. It is always, always worth it.#SpreadMadLove