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EPISODE · May 28, 2026 · 15 MIN

Ep. 39 Who Gets Their Way in a Relationship - 5 Questions to Ask Before You Compromise

from Relating with Jen Funk: Getting Honest About the Relationships that Matter Most · host Jen Funk

Have you ever noticed that relationship fights are almost never really about the thing itself?It’s not actually about where to go to dinner. Or the need for another Amazon package. Or the temperature of the house. Or whose family you’re seeing for the holidays.It’s about something deeper:Who gets their way?Who gives in?Whose needs matter more?And how do healthy couples decide without building resentment?In this honest and very relatable episode, Jen talks about the small everyday disagreements couples constantly face - and why those little decisions can become surprisingly emotional.From childhood lessons about people pleasing and conflict… to marriage disagreements about money, home projects, vacations, parenting, and puppies… this episode explores the complicated balance between standing up for yourself and learning when to let something go.Jen shares 5 important questions every couple should ask when they disagree, including:Am I fighting for something that truly matters?Am I always the one getting my way?Am I giving in just to avoid conflict?Is there a way for both people to matter here?What kind of relationship are we trying to build?Topics include:relationship compromisepower struggles in relationshipspeople pleasingconflict avoidanceresentment in marriagecommunication in relationshipsrelationship decision makinghealthy disagreementmarriage communicationstanding up for yourselfemotional needs in relationshipsfeeling unheard in relationshipsrelationship dynamicshealthy compromise vs giving incouples communicationeveryday relationship conflictIf you’ve ever felt unheard, resentful, controlling, conflict avoidant, or stuck in power struggles in your relationship, this episode will help you approach disagreements in a healthier, more connected way.Because healthy relationships aren’t about never wanting different things.They’re about learning how to navigate those differences without turning each other into enemies.Connect with Jen:🌐 ⁠https://www.jenfunkcoaching.com⁠💌 Weekly newsletter + relationship tips:⁠https://www.jenfunkcoaching.com/newsletter⁠Download Jen’s free guide:5 Simple Habits to Improve Your Relationship Today⁠https://www.jenfunkcoaching.com/5simplehabits

Have you ever noticed that relationship fights are almost never really about the thing itself?It’s not actually about where to go to dinner. Or the need for another Amazon package. Or the temperature of the house. Or whose family you’re seeing for the holidays.It’s about something deeper:Who gets their way?Who gives in?Whose needs matter more?And how do healthy couples decide without building resentment?In this honest and very relatable episode, Jen talks about the small everyday disagreements couples constantly face - and why those little decisions can become surprisingly emotional.From childhood lessons about people pleasing and conflict… to marriage disagreements about money, home projects, vacations, parenting, and puppies… this episode explores the complicated balance between standing up for yourself and learning when to let something go.Jen shares 5 important questions every couple should ask when they disagree, including:Am I fighting for something that truly matters?Am I always the one getting my way?Am I giving in just to avoid conflict?Is there a way for both people to matter here?What kind of relationship are we trying to build?Topics include:relationship compromisepower struggles in relationshipspeople pleasingconflict avoidanceresentment in marriagecommunication in relationshipsrelationship decision makinghealthy disagreementmarriage communicationstanding up for yourselfemotional needs in relationshipsfeeling unheard in relationshipsrelationship dynamicshealthy compromise vs giving incouples communicationeveryday relationship conflictIf you’ve ever felt unheard, resentful, controlling, conflict avoidant, or stuck in power struggles in your relationship, this episode will help you approach disagreements in a healthier, more connected way.Because healthy relationships aren’t about never wanting different things.They’re about learning how to navigate those differences without turning each other into enemies.Connect with Jen:🌐 ⁠https://www.jenfunkcoaching.com⁠💌 Weekly newsletter + relationship tips:⁠https://www.jenfunkcoaching.com/newsletter⁠Download Jen’s free guide:5 Simple Habits to Improve Your Relationship Today⁠https://www.jenfunkcoaching.com/5simplehabits

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