EP 396: Early Days-Emotional Pitfalls

In this episode of Early Days, host Michal Charles welcomes Sobertown Podcast listeners and introduces Sobertown resources before focusing on difficult emotions in recovery, including anxiety, fear, and delving into the difference between shame and guilt. She explains how seemingly small setbacks can trigger intense urges to drink and shares that stress and anxiety have been major triggers for her, as they were for her birth mother. Michal notes that many who started drinking at a young age never learned healthy coping skills, and those bad patterns were then reinforced by alcohol-centered media and culture. Referencing former podcast guest Martin Lockett, she describes guilt as a potentially useful moral signal while explaining that shame fuels isolation, stigma, and relapse, arguing for compassion over judgment and emphasizing taking sobriety one day at a time. She also highlights boredom as a relapse risk and recommends new hobbies or plans to fill newly available time, encouraging listeners to be gentle with themselves. If you have an idea for an Early Days podcast episode, or would just like to say hello, please reach out at [email protected] About Michal: Michal is an American podcaster and sober warrior who believes every recovery journey is as unique as the individual traveling it. With over a decade of sobriety garnered through various recovery systems, programs, and support networks, she's passionate about breaking down stereotypes and smashing through the shame that can keep those suffering with addiction in the dark. Michal is an animal lover, rescue advocate, and tattooed motorcycle chick who has dedicated her life to helping others, whether in her personal or professional life.  Nothing makes her happier than hearing from her podcast listeners, so if you’re so inspired, drop an email with a suggestion for an Early Days podcast episode, feedback, or just to say hello! Contact Michal at: [email protected]    Other Sober Resources: I Am Sober App Sobertown Podcast Zoom Discussion Groups Sobertown Podcast Resource Center Recovery Online Meetings   No Sippy No Slippy. Not Another Drop No matter What.   Remember to Pour The Poison Down The Sink!!      Sobertownpodcast.com