EP 5: Breaking Karmic Cycles: The Truth About Past Lives with Kumudini Nicholas

Welcome back to Relationships with Ericka Ush! In this episode, we explore past lives, karma, déjà vu, and emotional healing through storytelling, as Ericka Ush sits down with author R. E. Siliente (Kumudini Nicholas) Originally from Sri Lanka and now based in Ottawa, Kumudini brings a unique blend of science, spirituality, and lived experience into her writing. Her books, Who Stole Mother’s Soul? and Living Outside the Box – Time and Time Again, dive into themes of identity, memory, reincarnation, and the unseen forces that shape our lives and relationships. In this thought-provoking conversation, Ericka and Kumudini explore the deeper questions many of us quietly carry: Are past lives real? What does déjà vu actually mean? How does karma influence our present reality? And more importantly — how do these ideas connect to healing, self-awareness, and the way we live and love today? In this episode, Kumudini shares powerful insights on: The inspiration behind her novels and how storytelling can be a tool for emotional healing Dreams, déjà vu, reincarnation, and what they may reveal about consciousness Understanding neurodivergence and how it shapes perception and identity The connection between empathy, boundaries, and self-awareness Karma explained—what it is, what it isn’t, and how it influences life patterns Breaking karmic cycles and choosing growth over repetition Writing as a pathway to vulnerability, reflection, and healing Why readers interpret stories differently based on their own life experiences The connection between places, memory, and past-life impressions Mental health, hope, and navigating uncertainty in a complex world What it truly means to “live outside the box” and challenge societal expectations Her unique writing process and how she brings deeply layered stories to life This episode is for you if you: Are curious about past lives, karma, reincarnation, or déjà vu Have ever questioned the deeper meaning of your experiences Are on a journey of emotional healing and self-discovery Want to understand how past patterns may be shaping your present life Enjoy deep, thought-provoking conversations about consciousness and identity Feel called to live more authentically beyond societal norms Are interested in storytelling as a tool for reflection and growth This conversation is reflective, expansive, and deeply eye-opening. It invites you to slow down, question what you’ve always believed, and explore the possibility that your life holds layers far beyond what you can see. If this episode resonates with you, subscribe to Relationships with Ericka Ush for more honest, thought-provoking conversations on love, identity, and personal growth. Episode Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro 01:43 Why She Wrote the Novel 02:08 Dreams, Déjà Vu & Reincarnation 05:31 Defining Neurodivergence 07:49 Characters, Boundaries & Empathy 10:29 Rumi Quote and Past Lives 11:18 Buddhist Karma Explained 15:44 Breaking the Karmic Cycle 17:33 Memoir, Vulnerability & Feedback 19:46 Reader Interpretations & Stonehenge 22:09 Real Places, Real Inspiration 22:39 How Everyday Moments Spark Stories 23:42 Past Lives & Connection to Place 24:40 Hope & Mental Health 26:45 Living Outside the Box 31:51 Hope vs Reality 33:51 Next Book & New Ideas 35:18 Writing Process & Reverse Engineering 37:03 Reading a Love Encounter 40:36 Closing & Takeaways Connect with Ericka Ush: Share your feedback, suggest new topics, or join the conversation on Instagram: relationships.with.ericka Connect with R. E. Siliente (Kumudini Nicholas): Website: www.whostolemotherssoul.com LinkedIn: Kumudini Nicholas