Ep. 531: Marriage Retreat Part 2 of 4: Decreasing Conflict

In this heartfelt solo episode, host Ned Schaut continues his four-part series on lessons from a recent marriage retreat. Speaking directly to fellow fathers, Ned shares raw stories and practical takeaways on how to stop defending yourself, start asking for forgiveness, and bring your best energy home to your family. From learning the three questions that heal conflict, to navigating moments of being misunderstood with his teenage son, Ned unpacks what it means to lead through serving. With a mix of vulnerability, humor (including an unforgettable skinny-dipping story), and fatherly wisdom, this episode equips dads to fight for connection, love, and unity in their marriages and families.Three questions for healing conflict:"By the tone of your voice, sounds like I hurt you. Is that true?""Please tell me how I made you feel.""I'm so sorry. Will you forgive me?"Chapters:00:00:00 - Welcome and Introduction00:01:00 - The Power of Fighting for Connection in a 20-Year Marriage00:02:00 - How People Leave Your Presence: Being Interested, Interesting, and a Blessing00:04:00 - Decreasing Conflict: Three Questions That Heal Hurt Feelings00:06:00 - The Power of Asking for Forgiveness Without Defending Yourself00:08:00 - Feeling Misunderstood: A Father-Son Conversation00:10:00 - The Different Hats of Fatherhood: Parent, Friend, and Mentor00:11:00 - Creating Unforgettable Memories: The Skinny Dipping Story00:12:00 - A Man's Identity: Created to Fight for Love and Connection00:13:00 - Final Encouragement: Your Kids Need to See You Fight for Their MomLinks and Resources:Craig Hill's booksJohn Tyson's "Primal Path" program