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Apr 29, 2026 27 min

Ep. 624: Pick-Me Behavior

from The Best Life Podcast Hosted by Danny-J Johnson & Jill Coleman

Nobody likes a girl who hates on other girls, especially for the benefit of men. Once upon a time, when we were younger, we would brag about how we “weren’t like other girls,” but now we know better. Our female friendships have saved us from our darkest moments, and we’d be honored to be exactly like other women. Femininity isn’t a weakness—it’s strength to find beauty and connection even in the darkest times. We don’t hate the “pick-me” girls out there, but we do feel kind of embarrassed for them. The Bird Life [1:20] Pick-me behavior [4:56] Taking up a misogynist narrative [7:57] Our female friendships have saved us [9:19] Seeing femininity as weakness [11:29] Internalized self-hatred [13:42] Finding an appreciation for beauty [16:40] Gaining maturity [21:41] Subscribe to The Lighthouse Letters https://dannyjdotcom.substack.com/ Don’t forget to leave us a review and subscribe so you never have to miss an episode! Comments and questions can also be sent to [email protected], and you can head to thebestlifepodcast.com to join our Facebook Group. FOLLOW US ON IG: @TheBestLifePodcast FOLLOW JILL: @jillfit FOLLOW DANNY J: @dannyjdotcom You can also follow us on Facebook @Jill Coleman @Danny-J

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