Ep. 70 - Be Kind, Not Nice: The Type C Guide to Self-Advocacy with Kathy Washburn

Send us Fan MailYou’ll also love…Ep. 1 — Type C Defined with Dr. Lydia TemoshokEp. 59 — The Sweetest Devotion: Why Self Care Isn’t Selfish with Kathy WashburnEp. 64 — The Integrity Trap: Can following through for everyone else be breaking you down? with Natasha SkolnyIn this solo episode, Kathy breaks down the hidden cost of “nice” for high achieving women, especially those with Type C patterns. She unpacks why niceness can be a performance that keeps the peace while quietly disconnecting you from your own needs, and how kindness is different because it includes you. You’ll hear a powerful story that clarifies the difference between surface warmth and real care, the science of what chronic emotional suppression does to the body, and a simple practice to help you pivot from freeze to truth in real time.Topics discussedPeople pleasing and Type C behavior patternsSelf advocacy skills for high achieving womenHow to say no without guiltNervous system freeze response and conflict avoidanceEmotional suppression and chronic stressBoundaries as self respect and relationship careView Extended Shownotes hereSubscribe to Sense of Peace (Kathy's Substack) today! RECEIVE the attention you need to reconnect with your purpose. Click here to learn more about individual coaching with Kathy!If this resonated, the most generous thing you can do is share it with one woman who needs to hear it. One share grows this community more than any algorithm.Follow the show on your favorite platform, and come find me on Substack at senseofpeace.substack.com — that’s where the deeper conversation lives.And if you’re ready to stop just listening and start doing this work — visit kathywashburn.net. I’d love to talk with you. Until next time — keep investing in yourself. It is always, always worth it.#SpreadMadLove