Ep#85: Sex Addiction or Sexual Blueprint?: Understanding Sexual Needs in Relationships

Recently I went to my partner Scott and began a conversation where I stated that there were two times in my life that my cup had felt "overflowing". Both involved opening my relationship and having additional partner play. Now - feeling full or even almost full in our love and sexual lives is a fantastic thing.  I understand most people don't even get to that point of fulfillment. As someone that believes that it is possible to live a life completely overflowing in abundance, I feel that relates to the love and sex and relationship parts of my life, too. The discussion did not go well, his feelings were (understandably) hurt, he felt no one could ever be enough for me, I'd never be satisfied... and seriously turned and looked at me with some concern and said: "Do you think you might have a sex addiction?". This is not the first time someone has asked me this. As a society, we get REALLY uncomfortable around conversations about sex. Lots of us walk around with trauma. It's crunchy, and uncomfortable, and triggering. AND... not everyone experiences high libido. It's foreign to them. They do not experience it in their bodies at all. I came out of the womb with a high sex drive and always have been a sexual, embodied person. So let's dive into the conversation of Sex Addition & Sexual Needs! Shownotes: > TAKE THE 5 LOVE LANGUAGES QUIZ HERE > Erotic Blueprint Quiz: https://go.theblueprintbreakthrough.net/t?orid=745337&opid=4 > I did a podcast episode on each of these Blueprints, and how Scott and I use them throughout each day to "feed" each other love and/or prime our partner for sex according to how they're wired for arousal. >>>LISTEN TO MY EROTIC BLUEPRINTS PODCAST EPISODE HERE Jen’s Blog Post: https://www.jenniferkayloruscin.com/blog/Not-Sex-Addict