EP.87 Why the pickiest girlies have the best relationships

Ever been told your standards are too high or that you are too quick to walk away? Here is why being “too picky” is actually the secret to finding the right guy, and why you should absolutely refuse to settle. Many people stay in unhappy situations because they fear being alone or worry about how things look on social media. This discussion is for anyone ready to prioritize their mental peace over a performative connection. By setting firm relationship boundaries, you create a clear path for what you will and will not tolerate. It is so easy to get caught up in the illusion of "Instagram relationship goals," but true happiness means protecting your peace and walking away when your needs aren't being met. Today, I’m getting real about my own dating history, why the flashy, confident guys are usually a trap, and why overlooking the genuine "good guys" is the biggest mistake we make. We are leaving the situationships, red flags, and bare-minimum relationships behind!I want to hear from you: What is your absolute, non-negotiable dealbreaker in a relationship?Let me know in the comments down below! 👇If you enjoy honest chats about life, love, and navigating adulthood, make sure to hit that subscribe button! ✨🎧 Also available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever you get your pods!FIND ME HERE 🎤📹YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy?sub_confirmation=1Tiktok - tiktok.com/@ThinkingoutloudwithAnjy✉Contactfor business inquiries, please email: [email protected]✨ TIMESTAMPS[00:00] - the hook: if i'm not happy, i'm leaving[00:21] - intro: what "relationship goals" actually means to me[01:46] - dating is like shopping at tj maxx[03:10] - why the flashy, confident guys are usually a trap[04:51] - why the "good guys" are so easy to overlook[06:33] - the first date with my man [08:26] - why you NEED a non-negotiable dealbreaker list[10:09] - stop giving men 3rd and 4th chances (be quick with the exit!)[13:01] - the "bikini model" debate & bare minimum men[14:48] - final thoughts: being alone is better than a bad relationship #moderndating #highstandards #relationshipadvice #stopsettling #datinginyour20s