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I Saw Him First
by Anjy
This is a British Podcast about Dating, Relationships & Self Development 💞Follow I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST if this sounds like something you'd be into!#ukpodcast #datingpodcast #datingadvice #datingtips #relationshippodcast #relationshipadvice #selfdevelopmentFind Me Everywhere - linktr.ee/isawhimfirstpodcast
Episodes
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EP.87 Why the pickiest girlies have the best relationships
Ever been told your standards are too high or that you are too quick to walk away? Here is why being “too picky” is actually the secret to finding the right guy, and why you should absolutely refuse to settle. Many people stay in unhappy situations because they fear being alone or worry about how...
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EP.86 The situationship TRAP nobody warns you about
Dating in 2026 feels exhausting… and honestly? A lot of people are losing hope in modern dating.In this episode, I talk about situationships, noncommittal men, dating culture, and why finding “the one” can sometimes feel more like luck than strategy. I also share the biggest signs of an unserious...
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EP.85 Taylor Swift is engaged - but why are we all so happy for her?
Taylor Swift is finally engaged, and the internet lost its mind. But why do engagements, weddings, and “being chosen” hit us so hard?In this video, I break down the cultural obsession with love stories, why engagement posts dominate Instagram, how society glamorizes weddings over marriage, and…
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EP.84 Why I talk to men about money on the first date (and why you should too)
Would you ask about saving and investing on a first date? I do, and here’s why.In this video, I share my experience telling my co-workers about my first-date money question, why I think the saying “money doesn’t make you happy” is flawed, and how talking about finances early can actually save you…
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EP.83 You don't have to be perfect to be loved
You don’t need to be perfect to be loved... seriously. In this video, I’m sharing something deeply personal. How I used to obsess over every little flaw, always trying to be “put together” and “attractive” ... until I started liking someone who didn’t fit any of my old ideas of “perfection.” That...
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EP.82 Why Women Don't Want The Nice Guys
Modern dating is a mess, and if you’ve ever felt like all the good men are gone, you’re not alone. In this brutally honest podcast episode, I dive deep into the real struggles of dating in 2025, from the death of genuine connection to the overwhelming pressure of dating apps and…
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EP.81 My Deepest Relationship Fears
Are you afraid of love? Scared to open your heart because it feels like true love might not last? In this deeply personal video, I share my fears about relationships and why I’ve been single for over two years. From the fear of waking up to a partner who no longer loves me to the anxiety of being...
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EP.80 Dating Advice 101: Red Flags, Green Flags & All You Need to Know (For Teens & Young Women)
Let’s have a heart-to-heart, girls. Let's get into the girl chat! 💕 Whether you're a teenager navigating your first crush or a young woman figuring out modern dating, this video is packed with real, relatable, and empowering advice. From decoding lies from boys, to setting boundaries and…
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EP.79 The unexpected connection between Love Is Blind UK & Sabrina Carpenter's new album
Navigating Insecurities in Relationships | Love Is Blind UK & Sabrina Carpenter's New Album. In this episode of the podcast, we dive deep into the first and latest season of Love Is Blind UK, focusing on the emotional journey of two standout characters - Catherine & Freddie. We explore how...
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EP.78 Love Island 2024: Your ULTIMATE Cast Breakdown! 🎬 | First Looks & Predictions
LOVE ISLAND IS HEREEEE! In this podcast, we're diving deep into the latest Love Island season with a comprehensive cast breakdown. From the hottest new islanders to the juiciest fights and gossip, I've got all the deets you need to stay in the loop. Whether you're a die-hard fan or just tuning…
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EP.77 The Psychology of Mate Poaching - The Rizz, The Cheats & The Extroverts
Let's get into the intriguing world of dating psychology as we explore why extroverts are more prone to mate poaching and infidelity. Are extroverted individuals really more likely to cheat? What makes them successful at "rizz" and attracting partners? Does that mean people dating introverts are...
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EP.76 A message to the SINGLE and LONELY people...
Feeling lonely and tired of being single? You CAN be single and happy! This video is a must-watch for anyone struggling with solitude, self doubt, sadness, and yearning for a deeper connection. What if I told you that there are several benefits to being single? What if I said that single people…
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EP.75 Married for 30+ Years - The Secrets to HAPPILY EVER AFTER
Unlock the Secrets to a Lasting Relationship: 5 Tips from a Couple Together for 30+ Years. Looking for the key to long-lasting love? In this exclusive, I discuss my interaction with a a couple who've been together for over three decades, to uncover their secrets to relationship success. They…
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EP.74 STORYTIME: Unbelievable Bumble Date Disaster!
In this juicy storytime, I spill the tea on my disastrous Bumble rendezvous. From being 30 minutes late to tipsiness and corkiness.. this date took an unexpected turn! Get ready for laughs, cringes, and learn a lesson or two about online dating. Hit that play button now and let's get into the...
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EP.73 Love is Blind Season 6 RECAP: The Good, The Bad & The Megan Fox Look Alike
Let's get into the latest season of Love is Blind with this no-nonsense recap! The lies from Jimmy, the betrayal from Jeramey, the insecurities from Chelsea and AD, the toxic behaviour from Trevor, the cheating scare from Clay, the proclaimed Megan Fox look-alikeness from Chelsea, the cheeky epi...
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EP.72 Exposing our Unhinged Dating Habits
EVERYTHING WRONG WITH MODERN DATING. Unfiltered and absolutely unginged podcast today about the toxic realities of modern dating! From swiping patterns on dating apps to dating trends, dating psychology, hypergamy, looks maxxing, and all the other challenges of today's modern dating landscape. I...
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EP.71 Most Men Are Ugly
Modern dating really is the survival of the fittest! Today's podcast is a thought-provoking discussion about our swiping patterns on dating apps as women, compared to men. This was inspired by a Reddit post about beauty standards and societal perception of the regular everyday man on the physical...
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EP.70 When Did Love Become So UNCOOL? | Modern Dating & Hookup Culture
Let's talk about the complexities of modern dating. In a world where casual relationships and hookup culture is quickly becoming the norm, it has become so uncool to admit that you want a genuine connection. When did wanting to be loved become so uncool? Perhaps this is perceived as being...
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EP.69 Stop dating the "good guys" - you're SETTLING
Society loves to tell women that as long as he's a "good guy," nothing else matters. But is that true, or are you really just settling for less than you deserve in a relationship? In this thought-provoking podcast, I delve deep into the pervasive myth of dating the so-called "good guys" and why…
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EP.68 Why I Stopped Dating at 25
Curious about why someone would put the brakes on dating in their 20s? Should you stop dating too? Will I really never date again? Whether you're navigating your own dating journey or simply intrigued by the idea of taking a break from the dating scene, this video is for you! In this candid...
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EP.67 When To End A Relationship | Valentine's Day Special (breakup advice)
So it's VALENTINE'S DAY! 🎉 But for some people, it may be the end of their relationships 🥲 Well, I'm back with some actionable relationship advice for you! By the end of this video, you'll certainly get some clarity about whether or not to end your relationship. Are you at a crossroads in your...
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EP.66 Why You Should PITY the Rich | Hedonic Adaptation Explained
Have you ever wondered why we DON'T feel bad for rich people? This is a very intriguing episode of my podcast where I delve into the paradoxical concept of empathy towards the rich and powerful people of the world. I explained the psychological phenomenon known as Hedonic Adaptation (Hedonic...
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EP.65 Are WEALTHY people *actually* HAPPY? | The Answer is SHOCKING! (Research-Backed)
Does Money *truly* Make You Happy? Let's explore the fascinating world of the rich, where WEALTH is the goal, and HAPPINESS is supposedly an afterthought. What is the relationship between money and happiness? This eye-opening research by 3 psychologists reveals the surprising connections between...
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EP.64 How to build *unshakeable* CONFIDENCE (Science-Backed)
Using PSYCHOLOGY to understand how to be more confident, the science behind "fake it till you make it," and what exactly is the secret to building unshakeable self-confidence. I SAW HIM FIRST: A DATING PODCAST WITH SOMEWHAT UNPOPULAR OPINIONS😉 Dating Tips, Relationship Advice & Self-Development...
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EP.63 The EASY Mindset Shift That's TRANSFORMING Lives!
Using PSYCHOLOGY: The Power of Your Mind, you will learn ACTIONABLE tips to Glow-Up, Change your Mindset, Behavior, Habits, and eventually.. your Life. So, if you struggle to get out of bed in the morning, struggle to find motivation to get anything done, or you just need a little boost of...
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EP.62 The Pursuit of HIGH-VALUE MEN: Hypergamy or Gold-Digging? (Research-Based)
Uncover the truth behind hypergamy through insightful research and nuanced perspectives, as I delve into the dynamics of dating up and the concept of "high-value men." Is the Pursuit of High-Value Men Gold-Digging? Is it wrong for women to seek successful partners to date or marry? This podcast...
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EP.61 Three POWERFUL Skills To MASTER For A Healthy Relationship In 2024
Explore 3 Key Relationship Building Skills to Prepare for a Healthy and Fulfilling Connection in 2024. This episode will give you actionable tips on how to approach dating and romantic relationships with a fresh perspective in the new year. If you feel like you've done all the self work, the...
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EP.60 The DARK Side of Hookup Culture: FEMINISM & Casual SEX (Research Based Insights)
Navigating Hookup Culture and Feminism with Research-Backed Insights on Casual Sex. I explored eye-opening studies that delve into the complexities of casual relationships, and it's negative impact on women in particular. This is thought-provoking content that challenges modern dating norms and...
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EP.59 How To NOT Die ALONE (5 Reasons You're Single & EXACTLY What To Do About It)
We're social beings who thrive on connection and belonging. Relationships, whether romantic, platonic, or familial, provide us with love, support, and a sense of purpose. BUT, not EVERYONE finds SOMEONE. That's the reality of the world we live in. But don't lose hope. Here's 5 reasons why you're...
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EP.58 I Looked Through My BF's Phone.. Now My Life Will Change FOREVER | Aita Reddit Stories
Find out why this gamer dad won't let his fiance and baby sleep. Next, a clash of cultures causes drama between this couple, as a husband refuses to eat street food during a vacation in his wife's hometown in South East Asia. Finally, a curious girlfriend saw a little more than she bargained for...
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EP.57 AITA FOR BRINGING UP MY AUNT'S EX AFTER THE CRAZY MARRIAGE PRESSURE | AITA REDDIT STORIES
In this episode, the reddit reading starts off with a very relatable story on marriage pressure, cuz who doesn't love a bit of family drama? Also, uncover the intriguing mystery surrounding a man who seemingly 'accidentally' poisoned his housemate. It's a rollercoaster of awkward moments and...
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EP.56 FIANCÉ MEET AND GREET GONE TERRIBLY WRONG | AITA REDDIT STORIES
On this episode, we're diving into the unpredictable whirlwind of love with THREE engagement stories, but a not so happy ending. The nerve-wracking adventure of introducing a fiancé to the family, chaos from a bridezilla around the bridesmaid dress colors, and all the emotions surrounding the...
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EP.55 AM I THE A$$HOLE FOR NOT TELLING MY BOYFRIEND I'M THE LANDLORD? | AITA REDDIT STORIES
Real talk.. is it ever okay to withhold the fact that you're the landlord of the house you and your partner live in? Is it lying by omission, or do the circumstances make it justifiable? On this episode, we've got three 'AM I THE A$$HOLE' Reddit Stories with a twist at the end... ENJOY :)))))) I...
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EP.54 AM I THE A$$HOLE FOR TELLING MY HUSBAND HE CAN'T TAKE A SHOWER? r/AITA REDDIT STORIES
Join me for some laughs with this couple fighting over showers. Is it okay to tell your husband when he can and can't take a shower? What is the big deal with this particular shower, and why is wifey making such a splash about it? 🚿💦😄 ENJOY :))))))) I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating &...
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EP.53 RISK, ROMANCE & REFLECTIONS: TIPS TO INCREASE YOUR DATING SUCCESS
Join me in this episode of I Saw Him First Podcast to reveal the interesting parallels between Work and Dating. This is not about time management or critical thinking, it's 5 relatable and eye-opening love and life lessons that I've learnt from my job. ENJOY :))))))) I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a...
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EP.52 THIS IS WHAT MAKES A MAN COMMIT TO YOU: 5 MEN REVEAL "THE SECRET"
Do You Know the Plain Truth About What Makes a Man Commit? Is it Good Communication? Right Person, Wrong Timing? Finding your Soulmate? Good Looks? Watch this video to find out as I share 11 Key Takeaway From Their Stories. ENJOYYYYYY :) I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk…
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EP.51 WHAT AM I DOING WRONG WITH MEN? (A GHOSTING STORY)
Cracking a GHOSTING case on the very relatable Reddit Dilemma titled "WHAT AM I DOING WRONG WITH MEN?" On this episode, I dissect the intricacies of these SITUATIONSHIPS that end in Ghosting. From decoding the red flags and sharing my perspectives on the post, to giving advice on how to deal with...
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EP.50 IF YOU KNOW, YOU KNOW? 5 Tips To Help You Decide If They Are "THE ONE"
In this episode, I dive into the psychology behind these elusive moments of connection and discuss how to actually know that you know. Here's 5 tips to help you decide if they are "the one"? I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy...
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EP.49 HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU
Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! I'm joining the IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD gang with this one. Mixed signals, ambiguous texts, canceled plans, hot and cold behaviour, being left on read, the dreaded I'm not ready for a relationship conversation... these are all signs that someone may not...
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EP.48 WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR?
Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! Today's podcast is all about being confident in what you're looking for and not being afraid to communicate it. I discussed the fear of admitting that you want a committed relationship, how to be confident and intentional with your response to the "so…
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EP.47 WHY DATING IS SO DIFFICULT AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT
Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! This episode is all about why dating is so hard these days and what you can do to make it easier to navigate. I talked about how technology, vanity, and cultural diversity have made it tough to find love. If you're struggling with dating or just can't...
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EP.46 I CAN BUY MYSELF FLOWERS | VALENTINE'S DAY SPECIAL
Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! In this episode, I shared my revised approach to dating in 2023 and what it feels like spending Valentine's Day as a single pringle. I recap how my first date of the year went, what I'm doing differently this time around, treating myself to a bouquet of...
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EP.45 IS CHATGPT THE NEW DATING EXPERT?
Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! This episode was brought to you by the one and only ChatGPT :) OMG, I honestly had so much fun recording this! I explored how the new AI technology can act as a wingman and help us navigate the CRAZYYY world of dating out there. ENJOY :))))) I SAW HIM...
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EP.44 SHOULD YOU GET BACK WITH YOUR EX? 5 THINGS TO CONSIDER BEFORE YOU DO
Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! An ex is an ex for a reason? OR Are they the one that got away? This is a very fun one if I do say so myself. Here are 5 things you want to think deeply about before you slide into your ex's DM. I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk…
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EP.43 DATING STRATEGY FOR 2023 | SPILLING THE TEA
Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! & HAPPY NEW YEAR :) New Year New Me, New Year New Dating Strategy! Enjoy this bitesized episode where I discuss how I'm approaching dating in 2023 and look out for a very hot tea spilt at the end :)))) I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship...
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EP.42 HOW TO FIX YOUR ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT STYLE | PART 2
Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! Do you get worried when they take hours to respond to you, replay moments in your head and wonder if you've said something to push them away, or are you constantly needing reassurance that they still feel the same way about you...? If you answered yes to...
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EP.41 HOW TO FIX YOUR ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT STYLE | PART 1
Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! Do you get worried when they take hours to respond to you, replay moments in your head and wonder if you've said something to push them away, or are you constantly needing reassurance that they still feel the same way about you...? If you answered yes to...
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EP.40 EXCLUSIVE vs OFFICIAL RELATIONSHIPS
Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! Dating exclusively versus being in an official relationship, what's the difference? Should you agree to this? Are you being played? I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff....
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EP.39 HOW TO DEAL WITH A BREAKUP - 15 TIPS
Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! Let's get straight to the point in this week's episode! 5 DONT's and 10 DOs to help you cope with your breakup. Everyone goes through heartbreak, but getting over it faster is a skill only a few have mastered. I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating &...
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EP.38 WHY CAN'T MEN PAY FOR EVERYTHING?
Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! Age Old Question of who should pay on the first date but with a twist! On this epsiode, we have a man who's offended that he's expected to pay for everything and another man who's happy to pay for everything.. even goes as far as calling his girlfriend…
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
This is a British Podcast about Dating, Relationships & Self Development 💞Follow I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST if this sounds like something you'd be into!#ukpodcast #datingpodcast #datingadvice #datingtips #relationshippodcast #relationshipadvice #selfdevelopmentFind Me Everywhere - linktr.ee/isawhimfirstpodcast
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