EP03 我的“早恋”：我才是我恋爱的“第一责任人” | My "Early Love": I'm the Chief Architect of My Love Life

没有父母和老师对于恋爱的干预，高中的Jean成了自己恋爱的”第一责任人”。在这期节目中，我们将会聊聊，在享受恋爱甜蜜的同时，Jean也面对着恋爱和人生其他任务如何平衡的纠结和困难。尽管高考失利，但是Jean和她的父母都没有将其归咎于所谓的”早恋”。反而，这次的失利驱使Jean在大学的四年有了更深的向内审视，也有了更强的内驱力。她开始复盘自己应该怎么面对待人生的不同体验和任务，如何处理恋爱和自己生活的关系。我特别喜欢Jean的一个观点是，没有谁天生就会平衡恋爱和生活，我们都是在挫折、经历中成长。 是的，爱是一种需要练习的能力。 With no parents or teachers dictating her young romance, Jean in high school stepped up as the lead in her love story. This episode dives into how Jean savored the joys of young love while grappling with the challenge of juggling it alongside other life commitments. She didn't ace her college entrance exams, but neither she nor her folks pinned the outcome on her early romance. Rather, that bump in the road prompted Jean to look inward during her university years, igniting a stronger sense of self-motivation. She reflected on managing life's varied experiences and responsibilities, and the dynamic between romance and personal life. One point Jean makes that I find particularly striking is the notion that balancing love and life isn't innate; it's a skill honed through trials and life's lessons. Indeed, love is an art that requires practice. ***Full Transcript*** Medium @TinGwongHeoi